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originally posted by: TheOneElectric
OP, you're not too intelligent. You should look up online dating reply and date statistics to see why there is a black people meet in the first place. It's not because "to hell with whitey" it's more because "no one else wants us, so we might as well cut the pretense and cater to people who want to meet black people.
Okcupid does a nice job in keeping the statistics transparent.
blog.okcupid.com...
Here are some more facts:
I don't know, maybe next time you should do a bit of research first before getting your hidden racism all riled up.
originally posted by: TheOneElectric
a reply to: TheJourney
Tongue and cheek, buddy. You should try lightening up about this whole experience. It's only life, man. It's not like it's anything serious. Have some fun. In regards to my content, I'm serious about the research. There is a reason for certain sites. There's a similar situation ongoing with Christian mingle, but that exists to screen candidates. These specialized sites exist for a reason, and maybe...just maybe it may not be "hah, we're minorites and get to do whatever we want, to hell with the white man" Again, I'd encourage you to do some research on the topic.
originally posted by: Sremmos80
a reply to: TheJourney
Ya why should you research the topic you are pointing out.
If you did you would have seen there is a whitepeoplemeet site, which defeats the whole point of this thread.
originally posted by: TheJourney
It's like. I would never feel comfortable saying 'I'll only date white people.' It may even be true that there is the greatest chance that I will date a white girl. But I wouldn't feel comfortable saying 'if you're not white, I'm not interested.' Idk. That feels wrong. Guess it's just me.
originally posted by: ThePublicEnemyNo1
originally posted by: TheJourney
It's like. I would never feel comfortable saying 'I'll only date white people.' It may even be true that there is the greatest chance that I will date a white girl. But I wouldn't feel comfortable saying 'if you're not white, I'm not interested.' Idk. That feels wrong. Guess it's just me.
Nope not wrong...
originally posted by: TheJourney
originally posted by: ThePublicEnemyNo1
originally posted by: TheJourney
It's like. I would never feel comfortable saying 'I'll only date white people.' It may even be true that there is the greatest chance that I will date a white girl. But I wouldn't feel comfortable saying 'if you're not white, I'm not interested.' Idk. That feels wrong. Guess it's just me.
Nope not wrong...
Well, in your opinion. I personally do feel it is wrong to say you would only date someone of a certain race.
originally posted by: ThePublicEnemyNo1
You may subconsciously be appointing certain stigma(s) to certain races.
I think Asians can't drive worth a crap...but have I dated any yes. I think Black guys are whimpy, aggressive and possessive, have I dated any, yes. I think White guys are possessive, aggressive and whimpy. Have I dated any, yes. I think Mexicans are sexed crazed, possessive maniacs. Have I dated any? Yes.
You shouldn't dictate that by race.