posted on Dec, 2 2004 @ 05:29 PM
i wouldn't say anything, my grandmother is in her last days too, body is frail but her spirit is still strong, surprisingly she has lasted longer
than anyone has expected to.
While your great aunt may be close, the fact that she is not letting on how serious her condition is, basically says to me she doesn't want anyone
sitting around, watching her, waiting for her to die.
many close to death, usually do this, so that loved ones won't alter their lives and sometimes they just don't want to see us grieve for them.
my only suggestion to you, is to say whatever you want to your aunt and allow whatever happens to happen.