This whole op is going to take a whole life of situations that occur in a life long relationship and shrink them down to a 6 month - a year
relationship and show you that you can use these simple guidelines to see if you are who you are supposed to be with.
Going to start off with a kick int he teeth.
If your sitting at home watching the football game and your g/f comes home after you been together for 2 months or so however long it took you both to
feel comfortable with each other and wanted to believe you loved eachother strong enough to verbally announce it.
She walks in with all her hair shaved off like Britney spears! Now do you still love her?
See the thing is all through a life long relationship there are going to be things from both parties that will make one question the validity of ones
love for another.
She might like your hair a certain way she might want you to wear a certain wardrobe.
And let's be honest shes just making you into the guy she hodge podges from past guys or guys she couldn't get.
Well at some point you are going to have to be yourself. And that has to come early. Because if she can't love you for you or you can't love her for
Then ultimately your breaking up right now.
So what you want to do is work yourself in slowly. For example your going out on a date I would eat garlic bread. because lets be honest one day your
going to brush your teeth and clean up and shes going to want olive garden.
If you can't get past the inevitable. Your wasting your time.
If she likes you with a beard let her get comfortable with it then shave it off. And keep it off for awhile.
That way you know whether or not shes dating the beard or you.
If she's lusting she can't get past red flags. Love burns those flags down.
In the face of real love a bald head, a shaved face, and some bad breath won't stop nothing.
And fellas I'm here to tell you women do this all the time.
No make up on and she looks terrible she's doing it to see if you still want her. She knows she looks bad and when you tell her to go put makeup on
and what not. Shes looking into you!
So how long after that makeup situation happened to was one of you fighting or cheating?
Because no one tries to end the relationship from the beginning.
That guy likes that chick so much. Well if she shaved her hair off how long until he starts treating her like a pos?
See it lets you know!
Because all through life of being with someone things will arise that will make you question your love for them.
So lets just lay it out on the line from the beginning. Get the failures out of the way so we can have more time to spend with the right one rather
then wasting that time with the wrong one.
See my point here?
Eventually your going to grow your beard out and shes gonna stop trying to impress you!
Either you love my beard or you love me!
Plain and simple!
edit on 7-2-2014 by XsweetNspiceyX because: (no reason given)