reply to post by skoalman88
What is it with this site that always has this sort of thing.
But anyways you came to the right place to vent or get all kinds of advice. I off course have all kinds of advice, from the no good advice, to the
not so good advice, to the just plain #ty advice. So much so that I really dont now what to tell you man.
My only advice for you would be to get a new girlfriend. That generally works in 99.99% of all people in solving there problems they had with there
previous relationships with there significant others. Or at least for a while.
If your tolerating things. Well dont.
If she is cranky and messing with you. Well there is a reason. And the only thing you need to know is whatever the reason is, it does not matter and
you need to either end it, or end it quickly.
If she doesn't care. Well why the hell are you two in a relationship to begin with?
If she is cheating on you. Well then, you have your answer now dont you?
I don't know if she hates me, is sick of being in a relationship, or, maybe, she is just an a-hole.
Or maybe its all three. And I would add a fourth, your just not doing for her, and she is not doing it for you...And so?.. ?... ???????????????
What is the point of being together then? Not that the point would matter.
That aside, I don't know what to do anymore. Part of me wants to tell her to take a hike
Ya you should definitely set a trip and take her camping, then out to some romantic type stuff, then some other things, and what not. And if that does
not work? Then you should take a hike because it would only be you that is invested in this thing.
But another part of me is reluctant because I don't think she would care very much. I'd rather do it when I know she will be hurt, to sort of get
back at her for all the crap I've had to endure.
A good plan indeed. But why wait that long, when you can just pour some salt into her cornflakes this very morning.
Just a messing. And just a saying that the salt in cornflakes may be a much healthier thing to do then the whole scab picking thing your alluding to.
I mean if your going to be a 5yr old about this, then you may as well do it right....Right?
It's an extremely complicated situation (not an excuse). Like any relationship, there has been screw ups along the way. But its never gone on for as
long as this most recent period.
No its not. Nothing complicated about any of this. You and her either do, or do not. If this thing just keeps rearing its head over and over, that
is just natures and the universe way of telling you that you two being together may not be such a great idea to begin with.
Well, there's my incoherent rant. If you read it, thanks. I'll probably add to it as things continue since I have no other place to vent.
Your talking to the wrong people dude. Have you told your girlfriend how much you dont like her recently, I mean if you dont tell people especially
what seems your significant other how much they suck, and all the little things that get under your skin, how will they know?
If you persist in this layabout behavior she may even think that she does not suck, for all you know she may even think she is in the right, and
awesome, when in fact she just may be a douche and not know it. Obviously she must be informed of her doucheness. Maybe you should do that, and leave
no stone unturned. And if she cant handle it. Then...Well what of it?
But be warned one attracts the other, for every female douche which whined about there boyfriend or husband there was generally a male douche on the
other end of things, who was completely oblivious to there own doucheness.