posted on Feb, 6 2014 @ 07:42 AM
reply to post by Brotherman
Dude, just be bold, and be yourself. Be a yourself that is bold, and has confidence. But not too much, and don't be snobby.
Just ask her out seriously, like, a really super nice dinner at a nice restaurant, somewhere she would feel comfortable.
However, if this is an impossibility, then call her on the phone, and have nice conversations. If you met her on ATS, you can always talk about ATS
topics that are new for any lull in the conversation.
PS. My husband says girls like awkward, they think its cute, so just continue to be awkward.
As you know, I met husband on ATS. We have been married 15 months now, and its been great! Our courtship as it were, was talking on the phone and
stuff. Just be you, if she likes you or falls in love with you, its best if she is falling in love with who you really are, not just someone you would
like to be.
My husband and I were always open and honest and upfront about everything, and we fell in love with who we really were, not any kind of persona, so
definitely keep this in mind.