reply to post by nixie_nox
So you have been in a relationship with this guy for 7 months?
You can tout whatever experience you want, but sorry, a relationship as a teen doesn't count. You were with numero uno from 15 till now.
Doesn't count? Says who? You?
So anything I experience up until 21 doesn't count?
Am I not a human being until I reach a certain age?
So you basically went relationship hopping. Which means you can't handle being alone, which means you have major codependency issues.
No, my best friend and I were the reason
for the split in the first place. And for the record, my ex ended it, not me. Not that its any of your
You are slobbering over the first guy who was nice to you and thinking he is the one.
You're sounding like a particularly disgusting human being.
No. I'm not.
guess what, everyone thinks that when they start a relationship. At the beginning of every relationship, everyone thinks that this is the one.
Really? Because I never felt like this in any previous relationship.
Everyone's not the same.
But I suppose if you
say so, it must be
Being best friends with someone in middle school, has no real bearing on real life. And being friends is nothing like being in a relationship with
Total bs. It had a lot of impact on me to have a friend closer than family.
How does that not impact real life? Ridiculous.
You can call me whatever you want because you are angry that I am calling you on your crap because you come crawling in here going: I am in the most
wonderful relationship! I don't know what everyone is saying about them!!
Nah, I'm a little angry that I'm being attacked for literally no reason. Feelings doesn't equate to "crap." Not to me, anyway. Its obviously very
different to you, though. I broke down every little detail about why
I feel the way I do, and I never claimed that all of life's troubles
vanished from me when we got together. Its people like you who make me doubt this site, because all the props go to the first person to leech onto a
thread and troll their loving asses off. I don't care how many stars you get, you're being a completely revolting human being right now, along with
all the cowards giving you stars, who are too afraid to speak up themselves.
You really don't know how ridiculous you sound, like a little girl stamping her foot because we are not going: oh that is wonderful! you and prince
charming are going to be together forever! I hope you release doves on your wedding day!
Yeah, I'm pretty sure you're pulling all that Disney-land wonder bs out of your head. A popular, level 1 psychology tactic when debating in an
argument; Placing one's self on in imaginary pedestal in order to front like they're ahead of their opponent, like they're "above" them somehow.
You sound like a little girl stamping her foot! I'm just calling you on your crap! You don't know what love is yet!
But the fact is those of us who do have experience know that you have no idea what you are doing, and to not lose yourself. But instead of pulling
back and learning who you are, you think you know better and that everyone else is just tired and miserable.
I don't enjoy being alone. I grew up that way, and I don't need to go "finding myself" and detach from everyone around me in order to know who I
am. I help the homeless, I draw, write, never partake in any arguments my loved ones get into (because I've made that mistake before, and I don't
enjoy being roped into the drama), retaliate when I'm backed into a corner, and I lay my beliefs out there for people to see, or in some cases,
ridicule. Beyond the basic stuff, I really don't care about "finding myself," because when the situations call for it, I find out who I am then and
People who act the way you are are
tired and miserable.
I know quite a lot of them.
I hope I am wrong and that maybe you lucked out and found mr. right so easily, but methinks that since you immediately hopped out from an abusive
relationship to another one and got engaged immediately, we all know you don't.
I hope you're wrong too.
And even if I turn out to be wrong, I'll figure it out later down the line.
But just keep convincing yourself that none of us know what we are talking about, and you go on with your bad self.
Please don't have children for at least 10 years. You have to grow up yourself first before raising any.
Cover that up, your personality is showing.
I'm not anywhere near ready to be a parent, but if I had a baby tomorrow, I think I'd be a lot better of a parent than a good deal of people I've
seen. Not that I'm planning on that.