reply to post by MarioOnTheFly
Why creeps always get the girl and you're stuck behind the friends curtain...? Because they always go for sex...you have to want
it...physically and mentally...and you have to show it sometimes...drop sexy hints, make them uncomfortable...they want it too. You sort of have to
implant the idea of sex in her mind. In such a way...you are making her think about it...
I would almost recommend this but then you might have some really creepy dude who just scares the crap out of the girl and next thing you know
I think it boils down to knowing who you are and social engineering. If we are going to quantify it, I guess...
The first thing someone has to do is figure out what ball park they are playing in.
(Feel free to mix them while one will have to be dominant)
Then what qualities are you pushing?
(choose one of the above proceed below)
Everyone has bad qualities. First thing to do is figure out which ones you have. (Case in point, I'm an arrogant prick).
Now, for all the bad qualities, figure out which ones you are going to push for your positives:
Ability to gauge and modify moods
Once you finish that. For example, I'll list myself as:
A badass-genetleman-suit with nerdish tendencies.
An arrogant, egotistical prick who's whorish and a self serving bully.
I do however, posses the ability to gauge and modify moods, be thoughtful and understanding and maintain positive thinking.
So, first I outline the girls I'm looking for and see if they are in the same ball park. Do I see a girl who works in a lab 60 hours a week
processing dna data as a match? Well, beyond my nerdish tendencies I think she's gonna bore the piss out of me.
A stripper, go-go dancer, bar scene socialite. Fits the bill, but my ego doesn't want a girl that's been run over by every guy with enough money for
a dance or drinks.
So I need something in the middle. A girl with a career and a bad streak, who hates guys like me.
So I find her, prove I'm not a whorish arrogant prick by cheering her up when she's down, remembering all the little things (though she expects me
to forget) and let her know everything's gonna be alright (when it never is.)
You can break it down even further. Use your negative qualities in positive ways. Use your arrogance to make them laugh, but don't for get to throw
in something nice when you're being an ass, or you really are being an ass.
Oh and it helps if you are always right and they are always wrong. (even if they are right.)