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My boyfriend does not believe in the paranormal .He takes the easy road by saying he believes in energy .But it is the energy in the living not the dead he says .So I have a few questions ? Im sure he will read this and the responses from those that reply .
Ok here is the story;
We met almost 2 years ago on the internet , We hit it off from the start or at least that was my feeling .We spend weekends at his place on the river .Almost from the moment I arrived I could feel the presence of two spirits . A woman and his dad ,holy # was my first reaction this is great, finally someone I really like , (a lot) And his dead father wants to talk with me wants me to tell him how to relax so he can communicate directly with him. Hell no where my thoughts. Im not letting this get in the way of something that could make me so happy .You would be surprised how many friends I have lost over this gift (not sure what else to call it)So I tried to ignore him , He would not have It , He was the most stubborn, persistent spirit I have ever come across .
So by my third visit I was becoming very frustrated .By this time I also new who the woman was , She had died in this house not just in this house but in the room we where sleeping in .I knew she had died in the corner of the room .She was looking for a key to unlock the door. I knew she is a panic and vomiting
So we started with her .Now in his defense he had said that his family had bought this house because the girl that lived there had overdosed . He did not tell me it was in that house or room and not until I shared with him did he say yes the room was a mess exactly how I described it. Even to where the bed was in the room and the vomit all in the corner of the room and trailed
to the bathroom , and the door was locked ,He was a very good listener and even contributed some things.
So I reluctantly approached the subject of his dad. We discussed many many things the main thing being his dad did not realize how the things he said and did to him made him feel the way they did .I told him his dad had been trying to communicate with him and for him to relax and just open himself up . He wanted a sign from his dad. So that night we where laying in bed . Almost asleep , when there was a very clear wind chime .We both heard it not once but twice .Mind you this was in minutes of him saying he wished his dad would just do something to let him know he was there . He said he had no wind chimes...Said maybe it was a neighbors wind chime and he did feel it was his dad . We heard it two more times that night . Then about twenty minutes later a sigh loud and clear he said this could have been our breathing resonating off the walls . I was so frustrated I could feel his dads frustration .
The next morning we looked every where and could not find anything that could have made the wind chime sound .But he still makes reasons no matter is said to him.
I just wish his dad could communicate with him. its obvious his dad needs to discuss something personal between the two of them , without my involvement. Any help in this or advice would be appreciated
Princess, I thoroughly enjoyed reading this and have to say the hairs on my neck stood up a couple of times.
It sounds like your fella may have had a slightly tempestuous relationship with his father? If so, unfortunately that isn't going to help your situation... It's going to take time and a great deal of energy from all three of you but I do believe you'll get there eventually!
I wish you all the best, do let us know how things progress