posted on Jan, 26 2014 @ 08:33 PM
As people have stated, actions speak louder than words.
I have one sliver of advice here, and I believe its rather important.
Do NOT just got with the flow and allow this to define your life.
Speaking from experience here--if you are afraid to confront an unhealthy relationship and deal with the consequences, good and bad, you will never
stand a chance at finding someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve. The longer you are close to people like this, the more untrusting
you will be in future relationships--then, you will find yourself hurting the relationship before your woman ever has the chance to hurt you. The more
untrusting you are, the more damaging you are to others.
Those people are toxic, do not let them affect you any further.
I can speak for the rest of the world here when I say real love does exist, and I've only recently discovered that. I very recently discovered
the difference between being with someone, and being in love with someone.
Sorry if I sound harsh, but you know what the right course of action is.
I know its played through your head a number of times by now OP, if you haven't done it already. That scenario that keeps replaying through your head
like a movie... its time to do it.