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Cheating and infidelity is in the mind/emotions as much as the sexual act. If she is doing what you are describing.. yes, this is infidelity. Its emotional and intellectual infidelity.. which IMO is worse. Its a deeper cut.
I feel for you with the situation with the child. Youre in a pickle.. but can you live another 7 years with someone who DOES NOT consider you their "soul mate"?? I couldnt.
After a talk a last night, it is obvious she won't own up to what she is hiding. I have proof. I just haven't showed it to her. She continues to say she wont put up with the bull of not trusting her and I need to get over it. Life has taught me a leopard cannot change its spots, nor will a person think twice about repeating a sin after the 1st time they do. It will get worse. Basically, she will keep doing what she is doing and will not care what the effects on others.
Well, I just found out she is telling her coworkers I live in a bldg. on my step mothers property, I am a LPN(CNA actually) and I work 12 hr shifts every other day. The truth being I haven't worked in 3 yrs because my lungs are blown out from chemical exposure when I worked for the navy. The lies are springing forth like a new found oil well.
I think I what she said and she basically told her friends I'm a creepy old guy that lives in his stepmoms garage and hovers over a little girl when Im not at work. I think this is worse than being cheated on. Still working on how I feel about that.
She greatly fears me going around her job.