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Being liked is an art form. I would read "How to win friends and influence people" should get you started. Also analyze your body language , posture and general way of moving. I have met many girls that dont move like women, and its a huge turnoff for many men. Its really subtle. Watch some "L Word" and notice how the masculine women move act versus the feminine women.
Everyone likes "nice" but look it up in an etymology dictionary.
Really nice people that smile all the time are like dogs wagging their tails at me. Your just around. You need to have a little mystery and edge about you. Pick on people in a clever way. You want them to like you because your trust worthy and occasionally witty.
You want them to like you because your trust worthy and occasionally witty.
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But does anyone find it at least slightly bizarre that people ignore me in the exact same manor each time?
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We are all complicated, your real friends will notice this and stick by you (providing you have a good heart)
Very very true, so this is how I learned i had no real friend.
No one has ever asked me to have sex with them