posted on Dec, 30 2013 @ 04:07 PM
Just guessing, but you may come off as needy. You talk about sending messages and stuff and getting them to take you out. Without knowing more than
that, it sort of sounds like you are pursuing them and it may be a little too aggressive.
Then, when you say that you are doing the best in all your classes, it may also be that you are intimidating. If you are smart and don't bother to
hide how well you do and bring that up too much ... guys don't tend to like that, either. If you aren't talking about guys who can hold their own
with you, they are going to distance themselves from you in most cases if they aren't comfortable with the idea of a girlfriend who knows a lot more
than they do and has no problem rubbing their faces in it.
Guys like to be the man. They like to wear the pants.
If you were raised religiously, especially fundamentally, this should have been taught to you. It's true. That doesn't mean you have to always be
subservient or submissive, but it does mean that the guy likes to feel like the provider and protector. It's his natural role in nature (if you want
to dismiss the religious angle, but there is wisdom there).
Let the guy feel like a White Knight. Let him treat you like a princess. Don't force yourself on him. The tougher a guy initially looks, the weaker
his ego likely is. Also, ask yourself, is he really worth your time? Most bad boys are that way for a reason. I'd say look at the nice guys. They
tend to know who they are more than the bad boys do and tend to be more stable.