reply to post by wutdouthink
Like some people here already said. You try too hard to accommodate others. Also low self-confidence will influence your aura which will consequently
deflect other people.
#3 and #4 of your reasons may be possible but not likely here
As for the guys who want to score, you seem a pretty weak and easy target, but may
after a 5 dates, like mentioned, after not scoring rather move along.
Like said your energy/aura is very important here. Once you feel good about yourself and in general and let people see you as real you, not the other
person behind a curtian, you will be fine.
However, it`s hard to say what excatly is the issue with you, because I don`t know you. But in general people are more likely to be around people with
good energy who make them feel good and at ease. So if you have tensions with yourself when around others, you are giving bad vibes so this might be a
problem. Other problem might be, like also many have said, that you might have too attacking approach. Also might be your smell, but this seem to me
very unlikely as I have never met a girl that would on date or dinner smell funny
Can say also that if guys are interested in you at first, then it`s definitely not your looks or your smell, and more likely to be your aura or
personality. What about female friends? You have no interest hanging out with them? I know some of those kind of girls well and must say they are the
And they are not lesbians
They don`t like gossip, don`t like too much ego girly competitions, are easy going and easy to talk to.
So yeah, my advice to you....try to be yourself, try not to feel nervous(starring away, shaking..etc..), because this is akward energy/aura, listen to
people, be honest, make jokes if appropriate(if you go too far, apologise
) and that`s about it. Maybe show some arrognace(by replying sth) or
ignorance if they say or make sth you don`t like. And don`t let yourself in on the first date, remember, the most desired fruit is the one you can`t
Oh, almost forgot to say, but try not to make and date friends on FB, use it to add friends that you already know or meet in person and maybe get
along with. Also don`t post everyting on FB like where you are, where you go, what you do, what you like...etc....because not only that you`ll have
nothing new to tell on a date or a drink, but you also are keep updating your "police" record for the governments to see and know everything about
Just saying in case if you didn`t know that already.
I hope it turns out well for you...