reply to post by galadofwarthethird
OK OK I realized that makes little sense I suppose I would have to do a bit of explaining. As I really dont want to write a book. I suppose I will
have to cram this a little. Or a lot.
OK dudes, lets say a woman has a son, and she wants to raise him in the way she see fit in accordance with her peculiar views and experiences. So in
typical female fashion she raises him the way she sees best as to avoid any pitfalls she has had to go through, you know turn him into a real down to
earth and good man. And again in typical fashion she neglects to add into that equation a whole bunch of variables, to much to put into this thread
really. But primarily in everything there are discrepancies, at first there neglectable but as time passes those little discrepancies become grand
OK so lets say a woman raises her son to be a complete gentlemen to women and go for certain cues in women which she thinks best, to raise a real good
kid which will turn into a good man and treat women right. But and here is the kicker! AH! She herself is under the illusion that everything will at
one point in time change, when in reality everything and nothing changes but the here and now, and there is no such thing as latter or at some future
date, that is merely a convenient way of saying never, and if you have to change others but cant change yourself then its doomed to fail. So
basically what I am saying is she herself has never gone for those types of men she is trying to make her son into, in fact if she were in a crowd of
thousands of them like a heat seeking missile she will go for opposite of them in flash and without a thought, instinctualy. And so what she is
installing in her offspring is merely a false dichotomy.
So what would be the logical conclusion of that?
Lets say that even the kids dad is the complete opposite of what she is installing in her kid to be like. And generally in such things the apple does
not fall far from the tree and the kid would pick up a bit from mom and dad and things would balance anyways, that and there are genetic traits and
data even susceptibilities which will be passed down regardless. And nature will find a way and things would move on. Ah! but one of the worse
conclusion is if she the mom actually succeeds in turning her little experiment into that which she deems desirable and to extremes. Basically the kid
eats up every word and tries to be like mommy says. And like a good kid this child grows up and takes everything to heart and becomes the perfect
gentlemen as seen fit.
Its not likely to happen, but it does happen from time to time. But what do you think this kid would be like when he grows up and goes out into the
real world? Will everything be honky dory, cheese and roses. No only would this kid have a whole bunch of ideas stuck into his head based on false
logic, but worse. The echoes of good intentions, if he is lucky when he hits his teens all of that would fall to the wayside and he will find out its
all bunk, and things will find a medium. Which in such cases is the general output. But if its not! Well one of the worse outcomes is if he would
actually believe with all his being in all that he has been thought, and so when he grows up. You can guess what kind of women he will be attracted
to, women like mom was or like she has installed into him that are the right way. And seeing as the only time and place were mom actually went for a
guy like she raised her son to be, was in her head...Well there will likely be some problems.
And so the kid will be drawn to certain females, so what happens when he meets somebody like his mom or like its been installed into him to go for?
Which is a highly probable outcome by now. Will they skip into the sunset hand in hand all happily? The answer is no, because everything he believes
and was raised to believe is a false dichotomy, one which even females who may be able to make themselfs believe they could follow, but in now way
would they actually do that or would even be capable of that, and there whole life is proof of that. And so the kid is attracted to certain types of
females and lets say he finds one. It may go well for a while, but chances are all those looked over variables will creep up and the whole thing will
The chances are just as great if not greater that this kid will probably be taken for a ride, and as soon as he becomes an inconvenience or somebody
else comes into the picture poor fool will not only be drooped like a bad habit but taken for everything he has. And then if he is lucky he will
become bitter and come to sites like this complaining how women are evil and such, and if he is not lucky he will just end up in a ditch somewhere or
in the system or just blow his brains out now that his whole world that he thought existed turned out to be just a deck of cards. In all it generally
leads to a self spiral and falling out which eventually leads to the same end. And that is generally the outcome of such people, thought there in the
1% and things mellow and find a medium long before it gets to that stage.
Lets just say that females have this uncanny ability to believe there own bull# unconditionally. Generally males do not because they eventually get
called out on it, but females are generally more pampered and in social circles especially in the mating game its there call and dudes would just nod
there head to whatever it is there saying as long as they go along. And that is the general consensus among such thing, and ultimately I think the
optimal outcome considering what you have to work with. But in general believing one thing and doing one thing. Well! That is a completely different
thing, they are in fact worlds apart. And its all nice and dandy...As long as those worlds dont collide and people dont have to test out there
theories things are good. But when they do have to test them out, and when things are to extremes opposites and worse when they actually believe
there own bull#, oh the whole thing, and the whole love thing, fly's out a window fast. And so concludes that little story but its reverberations
would echo on downward for a long time to come.