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reply to post by bigfatfurrytexan
but what if this video makes girls lose motivation to exercise and live a healthy lifestyle
reply to post by IrishCream
Do you fear becoming old?
reply to post by Akragon
34/M/... I am very much attracted to more petite girls. I'm not saying skin and bones. I'm also not saying exclusively. A few varying examples I like: Shakira; old school Christina Aguilera; American pie Shannon Elizabeth; More recently, Kaley Cuoco (Big bang theory, Penny); Olivia Munn; etc...
I've often wondered if these tastes are a product of media. What else COULD it be?
Genetics? I kinda doubt that, since I think we're supposed to be programmed to look for big boobs and wide hips.
It could be that I've seen my mom and grandma struggle with weight, and as a result, struggle with health for at least my whole life. Maybe not. I do know that I've consciously said I would hate for any hypothetical kids of mine to have to deal with it.
I've heard peers, when I was younger, make fun of heaviers. I'm very empathetic, so again, wouldn't want to subject an offspring to that abuse. Maybe it's not the media making most girls think that way. It's probably peers, and that is what the media is actually controlling.
So there's not much wrong with being over weight? What about what's good about it?... I could, I won't, but I COULD give lots of advantages to being "healthy skinny." How many pros can be given for kids being overweight?
...more random thoughts from me, later, if we're lucky.