posted on Jun, 19 2014 @ 04:30 PM
Learn to find happiness within yourself, not in others. When you meet someone who does the same, you will not bring each other down, you will lift
each other to greater heights than you could on your own. This stands true for every type of relationship from friendship to lovers.
Just because one of your friends decided to date someone other than you does NOT mean who they chose is "better." Dont go down that road, because
it is not a good one.
Dont stress out looking for "the one," or whatever. That will happen in its own time and it could even be years down the road. Focus on starting
to build a life for yourself, where do you want to go? What do you want to do? Start working towards your goals. Start working towards
self-sufficiency. When it comes to achieving your goals, dont expect it to happen without perseverance and focus.
In the next decade of your life you, and your friends, will all learn more about yourselves than you ever thought possible. These things seem like
massive issues right now, but you will look back on them one day and see it with completely different eyes.
Focus on who you want to be, not who you want to be with. Because, who you want to be with is very likely to change repeatedly over the next few
years of learning. Spend time with friends that have a similar approach to life, and you can help each other reach your dreams.
Dont be afraid of failure, learn from it and grow stronger.