posted on Dec, 19 2013 @ 12:11 AM
reply to post by danielsil18
You need to work on your self esteem so you can quit worrying a future spouse cheating!
PEOPLE cheat for several reasons, the number one being they lack self esteem, and it's a way to 'prove' to themselves that they're wanted,
attractive, needed and valued. That would be a pretty immature woman or man, and the world is full of such types. They come in all sizes and ages.
People cheat because they have no moral foundation in their life to live by.
People cheat for revenge; to get even with their partner for hurting them.
People cheat because "you don't trust me anyway, so why shouldn't I do what you always suspect/accuse me of?"
I could continue listing reasons, but basically it is done by people who lack self confidence, have little direction in life, are not fully mature,
short sighted, etc. etc.
My husband was a confirmed bachelor for over forty years when we met. All I wanted was to remain single for the rest of my life. We new we wanted the
rest of our lives to be spent with each other, and we both new by experience what it takes for a relationship to stop growing, so we gave it a
We've had many wonderful years together, and I couldn't imagine my life without him. He is as important to me as my right hand, and I wouldn't be a
whole person ever again without him. He feels the same way about me- and, yes, we finish each others sentences.
Don't worry so much about the future; it keeps you from enjoying the present!