posted on Dec, 18 2013 @ 09:00 PM
I'm curious to people's opinion about marriage. Would you recommend it?
I'm a male and not married yet and I'm opposed to getting married for some reasons.
First of all, I know that pros about marriage like taxes, insurance, kids, etc. but what I want to talk about is the relationship.
I believe that marriage let's the couple take each other for granted. I want to explain.
At first when you meet someone you try to look your best to impress them, as time passes you get a bit used to them but you still try to be at your
best because you don't want your bf/gf to dump you. Now comes marriage...
After marriage people show their true self. Many couples gain weight, sex life worsens, and this is all before kids are born. You swore to be together
until the end, so why bother looking your best? You are already tied down. Divorce is difficult and men lose half their stuff.
Wouldn't it be better to avoid marriage? Couples would still have to make the effort to make the relationship continue. Getting dumped is easier than
Now to end my opinion I want to ask this:
Why is it considered an accomplishment when an old married couple say they were married for 50 years or more?
I'm curious about everyone's opinion about marriage, would you recommend it?