posted on Dec, 12 2013 @ 02:07 AM
Something doesn't ring as really truthful about your victimization. I feel as though the readers are to be pitying you instead of your telling us how
you are dealing with this situation----the best for all 3 of you.
You have a house and care for your sister and you don't work.. (you are home 24/7?)? How do you support yourself? How does your mother make money?
Are all the stories, you've heard, the truth?
I forget if I read anything about Community Heath Care, and if your mother is this bad, can you not have her committed? This would require medical
opinions, not family opinions.
Is there not a Community organization for a disabled child? to take the responsibility from you, at 24, who ought to be working and paying your bills,
having a life, and doing what is best for you?
It is only when we do what is best for ourselves that we can reach a point of be able to help others. Does "mom" interfere with your social/love
life? Find her a "baby-sitter"!
BTW, my daughter "passed on me" about her age 12, and she is now 49. I didn't beg or plead for anything, if this is what she wanted.....and the
long run was she is a lesbian and was confused, at age 12 (1976). She kept "moving further and further away from me", until she finally discovered
her true sexual identity in 2005 (age 41). She finally told me in 2010, but too much time has passed for us to ever be mother and daughter again. Her
reason at age 12 was that she couldn't deal with a disabling accident that I had when she was 5 (1969).
There is no settling of problems amongst family, relatives, friends, etc. unless the whole truth has been told, and told from the beginning in order
for all to understand. Each of us has our own problems, and they are OUR problems, no one else's, if we make them so.
I have dealt with my disability, on my own from 1969 to the present, because I am the one who knows best what is best for me. I have dealt with a
daughter who abandoned me because that is just between the two of us and I still don't know her reasoning. I said that because, if you think about
it, only you can help yourself in the manner in which you hold to be a truth, or an untruth!