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no wonder he is so alone.
for surely we are to blame.
fearful of the edge that we might fall from.
Some will read and understand Others will be glad they are not this foolish man,
grayeagle
reply to post by deathmode
Thank you for the video!
The three ways I deal with my own loneliness:
#1. Humor is my most significant way for dealing with loneliness
#2. Doing something nice for someone else
#3. Not being afraid to talk about it.
grayeagle
reply to post by Revolution9
Thank you for taking the time to read my poem. Loneliness is at the heart of every human being. Our response to it can take many forms, from denial to addiction. For some it is like a facial blemish that we wished weren't there and we attempt to cover it up or have it removed. I look in the mirror and I see a nose I have had all my life and if I look at it and take ownership I like what I see. However, If I look at my profile from the side it looks misshapen. I try to look at my loneliness in the same way. When I look at it head on I see it just as part of me, but certainly not all of me.
One of my ways of staying connected with people is to stay here on ATS, especially in the short stories forum. I have found a group of people here who I call friends. I hope you will find this forum a comfortable place and find new friends as well. I hope you will consider me one.
I believe loneliness is a human condition. Whether we admit it or deny it, it always lurks in the back of our minds. Some will feel it is their fault because of things they have done or not done. Some will blame others. The truth is we all long for love and relationship whether it is with other people or with their god. How we pursue that fulfillment often creates behavior that becomes negative and harmful to ourselves and others.
Op3nM1nd3d
reply to post by grayeagle
I believe loneliness is a human condition. Whether we admit it or deny it, it always lurks in the back of our minds. Some will feel it is their fault because of things they have done or not done. Some will blame others. The truth is we all long for love and relationship whether it is with other people or with their god. How we pursue that fulfillment often creates behavior that becomes negative and harmful to ourselves and others.
And I believe that it is your soul which came to the point where needs to be lonely to feel, to acknowledge loneliness and to evolve to appreciate yourself as you are and to appreciate even the slightest interaction with fellow beings. Some will say that it is in our nature that we have the need to socialize, some will say that without one another we cannot survive and other say that we are all one and because of it we miss connection with the other self. Well they are all correct=)
But as I have said, I believe loneliness is given to you, your life at some point, to learn about yourself, your feelings, your spirit. Once you find answers, accept it, evolve, you will be given plenty of interaction with others.
reply to post by Revolution9
Look at the loneliness as positive thing that gives you time to discover things you may not be aware of. Don`t struggle with yourself when in silly mood, just accept it. Go for a longer walk, clear your mind and in the meantime make plans that make you happy. I know the feeling gets intense when one`s mind is not occupied. But once you`ll be ready you`ll be okay and people will come in to your life if they are not already there and perhaps you just not see them...
Look for signs everywhere and take time to interpret them and even to consider them as signs in the first place...You say you live in far away from others? Did you ever considered having a pet? That`s a good thing to have your mind and heart occupied=)
grayeagle
reply to post by InhaleExhale
I believe loneliness is a human condition. Whether we admit it or deny it, it always lurks in the back of our minds. Some will feel it is their fault because of things they have done or not done. Some will blame others. The truth is we all long for love and relationship whether it is with other people or with their god. How we pursue that fulfillment often creates behavior that becomes negative and harmful to ourselves and others.
As another human being the greatest gift I can give you is my friendship.