reply to post by cody599
hang in there. I had to when I lost my 2 daughters due to lies, manipulation and the sheer lack of action of spineless lawyers .. however, yes, I
wept myself to sleep over the course of a year and at times screamed so loud it made the devil shutter and scurry back to his pathetic little corner
of his and perhaps made my savior stand from his throne…
The truth will win, but it may take time.
Breathe. You must breath for THEM Cody. If not for yourself!! Take care of yourself for THEM, for one day soon, they will need you and it will be your
voice they miss the most.
They have to listen to both sides of the story as well, and decide for themselves who was really telling the truth and who was in it for the money if
money was the issue and even still, regardless what happened, they WILL seek out the truth for themselves.
I was always there for them even though the state attempted to paint me as a dead beat dad, I fought for them financially and in the courts; I
give them, my ex, the lawyers OR the state an excuse to toss me aside like the rest of the world with it’s broken toys.
I picked up the phone every time they called which was ....twice a year perhaps. or less.
* Holding your face in my hands to force you to look in my eyes
Your Character is all you have, period~!
There is nothing else you have that is more precious to make a statement to your teenagers at this point, interesting enough… it's the only thing
they look at over the years when they think about you.
It will not be your finances, your job or you political position, but your character of who you are to THEM.
TRUST me when I say this. They WILL seek the truth in the matter, because the love compels them to, it's a nagging spike in the teenage head to search
to know ..."what is up"
When they start to putting the pieces of the puzzle together, and start asking questions, interesting how the truth will show itself, should there be
any shadow of lies mixed in with the truth and they see that.. GOD help that person that lied to them about their Dad, because hell has NO furry than
a teenage daughter/son that was lied to about the Dad to get them to side with the lie, whatever the reason!
You will show them, your ex, your ex’s bf/lover/husband, the courts and the world that YOU are their Dad! YOU are NOT just a somebody with kids; you
ARE and always WILL be a Dad…and an excellent one.
They are still growing up, they will have to make very adult decisions soon and one of them is forgiveness and what love really means to them.
DO NOT FALTER!! Be the light for the world that you ARE a great and awesome DAD and you will not be throw out with the other broken dads of the world
from the hands of the dogs that portray you as a deadbeat!
Deep inside Cody, they miss you, they miss you like nothing inside will satisfy, not $$$, not bf, not sex, not even chocolate.. And when they realize
nothing in this world will satisfy this..’craving’..
Their will be a great reunion~!!!!!!
They will search you out & pay whatever the price it is to see you. I know this. My daughters did the same with me. I never faltered, never once in
paying my support, even when at times seemed to be over the top. Trust you instincts and follow them.
Moral of this story, I got my daughters back 3 years ago, lots of tears of sorrow of loss over the years but, even still, also joy of happiness and
one lives 20 mins away. *tears* as so it goes, justice for me…was still served.
edit on 21-11-2013 by Komodo because: (no reason given)