posted on Nov, 4 2013 @ 11:34 PM
Imho People either can see through to your soul and sense your intent, or they cannot. I don't think it is about what you say or do not say so much.
Also it helps to err on the side of good, if you are unsure of intent, assume on the positive side. Sometimes you will be wrong, but mostly you
A biologist would say it is all chemical.
For me, I think we are attracted to people who either mirror our 'holes', or have qualities we wish we had.
Having courage, well in a way I am learning courage on ATS odd as that sounds. I have trouble confronting people, I was beaten as a child, so facing
someone angry is really hard for me, but I am learning.
Relationships are tough for some of us. I have trouble even trusting friends, often I don't. I am ever ready to run.
I am blessed with friends who overlook my occasional paranoia and fears. They either let me run, knowing I will be back, or they calm my fears. They
love me anyway, boy does that feel good!
I don't know if anything I have said relates to your thread. lol I guess I have treated it like a confessional. heh
I think you are doing important work, and I don't mean your job.
edit on 4-11-2013 by Iamschist because: (no reason given)