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Are you willing to allow her to live with the regret of being caught and giving up her faith for you? It will happen. And if she is easily changed, then her faith isn't strong to begin with. And if she changes for you, then she can change for someone else also.
WarminIndy
FlyersFan
Akragon
Why be skeptical though?
It's being realistic. You said religion is 'only religion'. Not a big thing. But to a fundamentalist Christian, Religion is EVERYTHING. Its part of everything in their life. You both have a fundamentally different view on life and how it's lived.
Perhaps you'd have to meet me in person to understand me...
I understand you. I also understand fundamentalist Christians.
The two can't live life compatibly together under the same roof.
I wish you well ... really.
But this is a disaster waiting to happen.
Sorry.
Amen.
And two years from now we'll be hearing complaints about child support payments.
FlyersFan, his first introduction about this girl is that she is 12 years younger than he is. He's bragging about chasing a girl 12 years younger. That's why I said she is naive. She just barely hit 20 years-old.
Remember when you were 20? Weren't we taught to be more mature then? Girls today don't have the same level of maturity we did then.
She talked to her mother and was told that many of her friends have husbands that are 12+ years older and met younger then her
Holy crap...
I said a guy not a cowboy
wildtimes
reply to post by Akragon
LOL!! Did you at least give it a listen? I bet your pal Cory (?) would appreciate it.
It's the sentiment that counts. and I LIKE Brad Paisley. I also LIKE The Cure. And Tom Petty. so there
Oh, and also - it illustrates the differences in "culture" between me and my husband - but we get along all the same!!
Good luck, bro!!
edit on 11/4/13 by wildtimes because: (no reason given)
wildtimes
reply to post by Akragon
Holy crap...
I said a guy not a cowboy
Okay, fine. You're not a "cowboy". Well, she's not an "enlightened seeker." The SENTIMENT is equal. Yet you cowboy music? What if I told you
YOU HAVE TO LISTEN TO THIS MUSIC FOR TWO HOURS EVERY SUNDAY IF YOU WANT TO BE MY FRIEND.
Huh? Then what?
Country music is terrible... but that isn't the topic is it...
That's your opinion. I happen to like it - and go through phases of listening to it and then NOT listening to it...
but you're evading the POINT.
Religion is terrible -- to many people...so yes, it's on-topic. We're talking about fundamental tastes and differences here. Do you not see what I'm saying? I've been trying to give you parallel examples to think about.
Oh well. We're still friends, though....right? Even if you think 'country music is terrible' and I don't?
I was under the impression that you think organized religion is "terrible", too.
So religion is similar to listening to country music...
ya that works.. lol
only one can prevail... or someone must admit to lying to themselves and God
Time will tell my dear
Prezbo369
A solid relationship requires sacrifice (no pun intended) on both sides
If you think it's your place to allow/disallow your partner from listening/watching/eating what they like, then you're after a dictatorship, not a relationship.
Is that a relationship or just lots of fun?
wildtimes
reply to post by Akragon
Is that a relationship or just lots of fun?
Infatuation is NOT a 'relationship'. It's just "lots of fun." And ONLY for a while.
I wonder if you're being really honest with her. Does she know that you have brought this to the table on ATS, just like she has done with her 'churchy' friends?
You said something to the effect of 'hoping she never reads this.'
How do you know she's not telling her churchy friends, "Don't tell him I said so."???edit on 11/4/13 by wildtimes because: (no reason given)