posted on Oct, 28 2013 @ 04:00 PM
SAP, you are on "my team". While that may mean little to you, it means something to me. Hell, i even aspire to have cool yellow glasses like you.
What Boncho says is the best thing. Ditch that "i did nothing wrong" viewpoint. You obviously did do something wrong, at least insofar as
maintaining that particular relationship. I mean, an 8 year engagement is an awful long time. And like Beyonce says....
But not knowing your former mate, there is little that can be said to give you insight. Look over it all and do some soul searching. This is where
you get the opportunity to be introspective, identify things that you want to change about yourself, and then move forward by making those changes.
Consider that neither you nor her are the same person you were 8 years ago.
I had a huge heartache in my youth. Today i am laying next to a wife of 20 years. I got knocked down, and got back up again. You will do the same.
Between now and then, figure out what may have happened, and work on preventing it next time.
You're a good guy. You aren't hideous to look at. You will do fine. Besides, fishing is often more fun than cooking the fish (if you know what i