posted on Oct, 28 2013 @ 01:49 AM
reply to post by SloAnPainful
I have to agree with Boncho on this one and say it may well have been the fact you did nothing wrong. Some women are just drama queens and love the
tension, in exactly the same way men are. Some just look for faults, some get treated well and run away from it, there's a bjillion reasons why a
woman will suddenly decide to cut and run. Trouble is there's no explaining it.
Time is your only friend here. It'll hurt, it'll suck and you'll take a massive hit to your ego and your inner self over it.
Luckily, you'll also learn from it. Mate, women are the hardest things to understand in the universe. At almost 40, I just figured don't bother
trying to understand, it's clearly not working, so just be. The right one seemed to come along eventually, when I was looking the other way.
Yes it's unorthodox, yes it's not a traditional relationship, but it works. It took me nearly 40 years to work that one out, and it just seems to
get better as time goes on as a result. The relationship I didn't want, turned out to be what I needed. Stupid hey??
For now, find something you can throw yourself into with gusto, go out and make an ass of yourself at every opportunity, hell, try to not remember the
next six months for all the damage you'll do. At the end of it you'll be a better man, promise.
Remember a simple truth, there is no greater revenge than living well.