reply to post by schuyler
First off, sorry it took so long to reply, it's been a while since I have logged in and checked my messages.
Anyway, I could see where you got that.
But, this was a relationship that had lasted in one form or another for 8 years, give or take. We were friends in high school, and I used to see her a
lot for the next 3 years. There was 4 years where I was in the Navy and didn't see or hear from her. Then, after I was discharged in 2012, we started
talking and hanging out. We had become close friends. For a long time, I didn't try for anything more, as she was with another guy and I'm not the
type to go after women who aren't single.
Anyway, I guess an update is in order. After this whole ordeal, she got evicted from her house because the guy in this thread turned out to be fairly
worthless and would not help pay rent. Him, her, and her two small kids were staying in a small camping trailer for a time, winter was on, and both of
the kids were sick. She finally left him and got in contact with me again. We had a barbecue and talked. Everything was hunky-dori again. A few days
later I call her up to ask her if she'd like to go out for dinner and she says "I would, but I'm talking to someone right now."
So, finally, I get pissed off and ask her what her deal is, when is she going to give me an actual chance. She says that someday she will, she's just
not ready for that yet. Which, of course, makes absolutely no sense. So I told her how I felt. She gets mad at me and says "I told you I'd only end
up hurting you."
So, I told her that I'm tired of being used by her and that maybe she'll understand one day after this guy does the same thing that all the others
did and I won't be there to pick up the pieces again.
After that, she hasn't spoken to me and has blocked me on Facebook.
I can't say I'm over it, but I'm not going to deal with her anymore.