reply to post by dave_welch
Its a general thing dude. If you are lead on or have to play the love games she is leading you on, for females its instinctual, there modus operandi
they could not change it even if they wanted to. A majority of the fault lies with you. And you should have known what she was about from the
beginning and should have avoided it. Bu I suppose it is to be expected.
Listen to oldie he is right, and females do keep em on strings till somebody better comes along. And I quote his reply..."Many women will keep one guy
on a string until they have the next one hooked. It is a safety net for them, the people who feel half-empty on their own"
Go to any hookup site and you will see them, # even on relationship sites you find lots of them who are like. "oh moving to so and so city next month
need a guy to show me around and take me to sites around town, I like this and such and that yada yada" Some of them are not even hiding there just
looking for somebody to romance them, take them out on a nice dinner, sweep them up there feet, # them and see ya, bye bye the next day. And next
week they would find some other guy, but hey at least there open about such things and straight forward as they state it clearly on the profiles, in
fact they complain that they get to many guys looking for relationships. Freaking hilarious no?
No joke! when I tried the whole online dating a year or so ago I would run into such profiles, albeit if not a whole lot, but they were
proliferate especially the ones who were not even in town but were looking for people in those towns only because they were moving there. And then
probably only because they needed somebody to help them move there stuff and did not want to hire any movers.
So ya dude, dont take any of that stuff serious. For females or anybody really but females especially the whole love thing, and leading on thing its
an art, a way of life, most of them are just users, and you know them by default if you keep an eye out. I will give you a hint there usually the
ones who are always come around when something has gone wrong for them, or they need something from you, but are nowhere to to be seen when you need
You should ask yourself this question...What the hell would you want to be with this person to begin with anyways? She found somebody else and you
should count yourself lucky. So no! Don't bother telling her or the new guy anything if you can avoid it. And also see to it that your not around in
the next few months, or year, because its likely that this game will repeat itself when they break up.
edit on 19-10-2013 by
galadofwarthethird because: (no reason given)