posted on Oct, 16 2013 @ 03:41 AM
reply to post by Isittruee
I don't know what to make of this...
It couldn't have been your fault IF she was willing to leave the children you have...
my deepest apologies and sympathies to you...
but if this is some sort of joke it isn't funny...
Im sorry for being cold but theres a lot of clowns on net forums that post things like this just for kicks...
Though im truly sorry if my assumption is wrong
I do not think that you needed to post what you had written... i find your words a little harsh... (although understood and respected!)... as in times
of great hardship words such as yours cannot or maybe not the best solution when a person requires a good shoulder to lean upon... especially on a web
forum such as ours with members that are capable of having a little or much empathy... (This is my own personal opinion of course)... End of
Isitruee... The only words that i can express to you in this time of great loss, sadness and frustration are the following words (i hate to use the
word "words") but maybe i should say emotions and sentiments...?
Stay strong... do not give up... THINK OF YOUR CHILDREN FIRST AS WELL AS YOURSELF AND CLOSEST LOVED ONES FIRST....
Maybe this is the deeply saddening message that says "Why not give up what you are doing right now and come back to your kids before more damage is
I do not think that you need to blame yourself... the question is not about how you acted... you have/are did/doing your best to create a stable
family structure in the way that you only know the best to do so...
You cannot and SHOULD not be blamed for what you think is best for your family... You have and will do/did your best...
I will not judge you as some ignorant and insensible people (might even say TROLLS) might do so here.
Edited to add :
As Cody said too, if you need someone to talk to, just use the U2U function... one of us (no matter who we are are there to talk if need
edit on 16-10-2013 by Rodinus because: Phrase added