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Night Star
reply to post by denyego26
What an awesome Mom you are to have shaved your head for your child. That was one thing that really freaked me out when I had my cancer as I had very long hair down my back and lost it. It does grow fast but not fast enough for me. LOL It's just past my shoulders now.
I didn't say that, I talk to people see how they are and where they are mentally. You read into things to see what you want that is why you wont listen.
Your just stuck in the anger, why me, don't want to listen mode, I don't need any help, let me vent , pissed off ,my cancer is worse so I need more sympathy.
So I don't need the know the ins and out of every cancer the same emotions apply
Hope you get the help you need
Hope you get the help you need
You have people here who genuinely understand and care.
some studies have shown that as much as 20% + of parents who have had a child diagnosed with cancer suffer from a form of Post Traumatic Stress
buddha
wow!
it sounds like you hate ever one who does not have it.
thing is you would do the Same in their place...
stop hating so much.
people just dont know what to say.
so they say some thing stupid.
imasheep
I tried to write some helpful sounding response in order to not hurt your feelings, but instead, I'm going to write the first thing that came to mind. Please don't take this as a personal attack...its just my opinion.
First, its you thats making people uncomfortable by even speaking about your cancer to people. Noone wants to hear some Betty Buzzkill talking about chemo therapy or how she has stage four cancer.
I'm not saying that pertains to all the people who have responded strangely to your cancer, but I doubt anyone would even know if you weren't advertising it.
People react to death and dying differently. I mean, what IS a proper response when you hear someone is dying anyway? Why even put people in the position to respond in the first place?
While you have my sympathy for your plight, I really don't care as I don't have a dog in that fight. You gotta realize that in the grand scheme of things, neither you...nor your cancer mean anything to anyone besides family.
Expecting strangers to care is really the problem I see.
First, its you thats making people uncomfortable by even speaking about your cancer to people. Noone wants to hear some Betty Buzzkill talking about chemo therapy or how she has stage four cancer.