posted on Oct, 11 2013 @ 02:26 PM
Boncho brought up some very valid points. Many individuals who claim bullying in the work place are the front runner offenders of slackers or short
cut efficianados who are continually reprimanded for not doing there job.
I am not however stating there is not such a case that is being presented by the OP.
I wonder about the victim mentality sometimes. For as many legitimate cases there are, there are half that are full of Oscar Meyer Bolgna.
Have I been bullied??? Yes, have I laid down and taken it??? Hell to the mutha f'n NO!!! Fortunately I was taught to be able to fight physically and
verbally and once challenged either I am walking away the victor or both will walk away unsatisfied but the other knowing they cannot pull BS and
think I will sit idly blind.
There is always a HUMAN RESOURCE department that is there for these specific cases. And if the HR rep doesn't respond in the fashion you feel
satisfied there are other avenues that are instituted to prevent work place bullying. I just can't think of them right now because I'm in awe of
some of the responses.... Forgive me....
And I digress....
Stand up to bullies or be prepared to be bullied. It's the victim mentality that breeds week minded people into not speaking up or saying anything.
Bullies are more shocked when a more timid person stands up and 99% of the time will back down IMMEDIATELY!
If you get knocked around, then pick your ass up and do it again until they get the picture.
If you get put into a hospital for getting the spit kicked out of you, well you have a harasment lawsuit or even worse that can be imposed not only on
the assailant but the company that is responsible for putting a douche tart into that position of power.
You are only as helpless as you let yourself be!
For Christ Sakes!!!