I just visited THIS
thread. Of a member who disagrees with tattoos on women, but wants
to find a mate, something like that. .
After reading most pages, and many posts, it was clear how sensitive the topic was, about women and their freedom of expression via tattoos, and the
OP's opinion on them. A lot of female members (tattoos or not) responded emotionally or defensive, because the way the author came off. (I read the
OP, and understand why any female would feel that way!)
I am making this reply thread, to the other thread, because of sensitivity and mis understanding of woman.
The OP of the other thread clearly wasnt good at wording things, and his view on the subject at hand. This thread is for the women with the tattoos,
or even those thinking about getting one in the (near) future.
Ladies; your expression means the world to me as a man. Showing your inner colours and reflections is very important, for a simple art on your body,
can give hints of your personality and true colors.
No doubt it is; your body, your life, is your choice to make of both. And in that aspect, I believe the author of the other thread was wrong, and
missing the point that his opinion on how women show themselves means nothing.
But it is important to remember your body is biological, and not a canvas to paint. Wether you are an artistic person or not, whatever your reasons
for inking up your body (and we are talking about those who get tatts all over) is, you should value your naturual - inner and biological - beauty and
sexiness as a woman.
I believe the message in the other thread was; to many tattoos or large tattoos, can hinder your biological beauty and natural curves as a woman. The
pictures and illustrations of artificial ink, can take from your natural beautiful face, or body. So why one would not like tattoos on a woman is
understandable to me as a man.
The point of the message is not about the amount of tattoos or your free choice to express yourself - the point is that you as a woman, are beautiful
the way you are, and nothing needs to change that. Tattoos, clothes, hair colours etc - can change the way people see you, every knows that, its not a
personal attack. It all has to do with the signal or image you send out to those who observe you within this Earthly existence. Those observing you
the most, would be the opposite gender, as its in our instincts to do so.
A woman reading this with tatts or ink all over; its not that your inner colors or personality is being judged by the tatts or maybe your unique hair
- its the signal of the image you send out when your body looks like an art project.
Men and women are not attracted (im talking about REAL attraction, not the mammal instincts of the human body) by ink, clothes, or a unique image.
Its your inner-energy that makes the attraction, and the energetic-signals you give off, that make a man look twice or check you out.
As natural human beings, male and female, we receive and transmit signals from; behavior, personality, body language, emotion, inner vibration
(feelings), words, facial expressions, and even tattoos, how we wear our hair or what we wear in general. As natural species of Earth, it is intuitive
to try and pick up as many signals as we can to understand what we are seeing or experiencing, in this case men on females.
I dont think its about judgement, its about natural attraction as opposing genders of the same species. What you do with your self, your natural body,
and how you choose to express your inner self, is your FREE choice, and I have nothing agianst it. I have met women tattood from toe to ear, and they
have been very colorful and sweet people. Many of those 'types' of women are very beautiful and sexy. But as one member said in the previous thread
- "it depends on the person, and the tattoo".
But before we meet such a person, their visual signal they give off can feel a bit.. "eclectic" I suppose, meaning it can be hard to "read" that
person because of all the visual signals a (wo)man can recieve from that individual.
I am a man who understands inner expression, but I also understand the natural signals we receive/transmit as human beings. Understanding both sides,
is understanding why some like tattoos, and some dont. Why some like 'unique' hair styles, and some dont.
To bring this to an end - your body is not a canvas, you do not need tatts to "show off", or wear art. Art is meant for a canvas or hung up on a
wall, not your biological body.
But you do need to express yourself from your mind and heart, and show your true colors. As I said, it is important to show those colors, to express
yourself and show your inner feelings. Because we as men, need to understand you if we are to get close.
But the point is, make sure that is why you get tattood. Not by pressure, trends, or an ego/prideful mentality. Not because it seemed "like a good
idea at the time"..
But by showing what you want people to know of yourself, somethign that expresses YOU and who YOU ARE. To me, that is very sexy in a woman, one who
feels the need to show their internal self via expression. Nothing is more beautiful and attractive (to me) then a woman who isnt afraid of showing
So I hope I made the message more clear then the last guy lol. If you want a tattoo, DO IT! Just please, make sure it means something special to you,
or its an expressing of who you are, because that is what makes you beautiful ladies