reply to post by enament
There was one poster who told you to delve into the why of your feelings concerning tattoos... I happen to agree with him.
Personally, I do not have any tattoos at all, not one. But that is me.
When I got divorced I realized I did not even know who I was. I only knew what everyone in my life 'wanted' or 'needed' me to be, but not who I
was, inside. I spend quite a few years soul searching, evaluating my own personality traits and finding out who I really was. It wasn't easy because
you have to look at your strengths and face the fact you have weaknesses and be honest with yourself. NOT an easy task.
once you do that can you find the person who is right for you as the individual you really are. But then, you have to be honest with
the world in order to find them.
That honesty with the world about who you really are is another very difficult task, its all well and good to admit your weaknesses to yourself, but
to give it voice and tell perfect strangers? SCAREY!
And then... after all that, you have to have a keen enough insight into people, in order to deduce whether or not that person you are speaking to is
just as honest with themselves and the world around them...
Like I said, it took years... but now, I am sincerely with the other half of me, the person who completes me and my true soulmate... I could not be
With you, it may not be the tattoos themselves you detest, but something about them which they represent to you very deeply, whether that be
recklessness or another trait. Whatever it is, I am sure you will figure it out, and who cares if you do detest them? You as a person have EVERY right
to your own feelings... no one can judge you for having them. We all have likes and dislikes and we are all unique in very special ways.
You do not have to like tattoos on women! You do not need anothers opinion of how to view the world around you... you only need yours. Just make sure
its an honest one... with yourself.