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reply to post by Lovely1973
My advice is simple.
If you are sure that the U.K. is the answer as far as money is concerned, and your husband truly loves his family, perhaps the best thing is for all of you to return to the U.K. and for him to assume the role of stay-at-home Dad, while you work as a nurse.
He obviously is unable to provide as far as income is concerned, but there's no reason that he cannot provide in other ways.
As an aside, I don't know your husband, or his mentality towards an idea like this, but at least in the U.K., there would be far less public scrutiny placed on him for staying home and taking care of the children as opposed to the Middle East.
Whatever you decide to do, I wish you good luck and hope that the two of you manage to do what is needed to keep your family together, especially considering that it sounds like a close and loving one.
We married in UK in a Registry Office so it was a part of the vows 'for better for worse' (I think!).