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We all like to feel special OP... its ingrained in us from birth. Its when you realize you are nothing special and stop seeking validation for your need to feel special... that you can really move in the world and see how truly amazing WE are. Go macro rather than micro
Puzzuzu
I'm curious to know if this feeling of separation from reality/disassociation/ feeling out of place in your body and the world has increased recently, which has lead you to create this thread? I ask this because for the last 4-6 days I've felt the feeling of separation/disconnection increase.
Puzzuzu
Also, I've never been through anything extremely traumatic that could cause dissociation...although I've considered the possibility of myself being abducted and my mind has disconnected to compartmentalize the memories (might sound crazy, but this is the place for it, no?)
Astrocyte
reply to post by Puzzuzu
The Dalai Lama is constantly traveling. He is subject to stresses far greater than any of ours - I can assure you...The Dalai Lama has every reason plus some for feeling disembodied. But he isn't. He isn't because he has attained autonomy over himself, and in doing so, has allowed himself to experience his bodies energies.
All of us are able to overcome dissociation.
The wisdom of yoga is that it recognizes the bodies centrality in feeling alive. Want to feel more relaxed and calm? Get to practicing yoga.
HelenConway
To OP yes I have felt like this. I see my body / personality self as separate from me, in a way.
It is like there is an intelligence behind my earth mind that watches --- that is me.
The body/ mind is the instrument that the real ' me' uses to navigate this life.
People and life as we humans live it [ currently ] is absurd - so yes I feel that alot too. Humans think that if society regards something as a ' truth' or a ' norm' or ' justice' then that it is .
That of cause is not true - consensus opinion does not make something the truth.
ChuckNasty
Maybe it's me, but I'm sure majority of people on this planet can be diagnosed with a 'mental illness' of some sort. To jump to conclusions & insist a person needs professional help seems to be the norm.
But sometimes, just understanding that a person's feeling isn't unique or abnormal helps a ton....without the need for therapy and/or meds (no, don't think anyone here recommended meds). (For some reason, the way homosexual's were labeled in the past comes to mind )
People just need to connect - this site is proof.
To Cappy - hope you work things out, regardless of the method.
to come back to the self isn't
StealthyKat
cappy85
This is what is so frustrating. I'm never taken seriously. I can't talk to anyone because no one believes me or thinks I'm trying to get attention. I don't care about any of that. I just don't want to feel alone. I don't want to feel I'm crazy. I'm very honest with how I feel I just want some help, I don't know whats going on with me so I can feel normal throughout life. I'm a bit frustrated and I appreciate the honest replies because its so hard to explain this to someone who hasn't experienced it
I don't understand why you would come here advice on mental health issues. That is serious stuff. I mean sure, there are great people here, but really?? You have children. If you are having problems such as this, you need to get advice from a mental health PROFESSIONAL...not someone on ATS.
It just doesn't make sense. I understand you need someone to talk to, but if you are serious, this is not the place to seek this type of help.
no mystical explanation for the dissociation.
developed a habit of emotional disengagement
the solution is to reverse this habit and engage with the world.
cappy85
Hi guys!
I am going to try to describe this the best way I can. Ever since I as younger, I always felt like I was separate from my body, that I didn't fit in my body. I feel like I'm foreign to this physical body. It isn't how I look, my personality....etc it is simply that I feel separate. I don't belong in this physical state so to speak, or maybe even so that I'm not comfortable in a physical body. I have probably lost you by now
I have always been very serious and much more mature for my age. I have always felt like there was something different about myself. For example, I don't get into popular culture, much like those who surround me. I find myself being more receptive and wise beyond my years. When I talk with and look at others, it all seems so superficial to me. I can't explain it that well. It is just a feeling of detachment from those around me as well as myself (physical being). I have had a medium tell me I am a very old soul and that always intrigued me though I'm not sure what that means, but maybe it is pertinent.
Has anyone experienced this or can anyone relate? It is very depressing to feel so out of place all the time and for as long as I have. I don't feel comfortable no matter where I am, how I look, what I do....etc It just doesn't feel right or natural. I'm just a separate entity. Perhaps, I'm just a weirdo ( I will admit that is possible LOL) but I would love if I could get some insight from others.edit on 27-9-2013 by cappy85 because: (no reason given)edit on 27-9-2013 by cappy85 because: Grammaredit on 9/28/2013 by kosmicjack because: title fix
HelenConway
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We all like to feel special OP... its ingrained in us from birth. Its when you realize you are nothing special and stop seeking validation for your need to feel special... that you can really move in the world and see how truly amazing WE are. Go macro rather than micro
I don't think the OP was trying to say she was special.
To OP yes I have felt like this. I see my body / personality self as separate from me, in a way.
It is like there is an intelligence behind my earth mind that watches --- that is me.
The body/ mind is the instrument that the real ' me' uses to navigate this life.
People and life as we humans live it [ currently ] is absurd - so yes I feel that alot too. Humans think that if society regards something as a ' truth' or a ' norm' or ' justice' then that it is .
That of cause is not true - consensus opinion does not make something the truth.
Mahatma Gandhi - "Truth is one, paths are many."
Consensus - 'truths' ; 'norms' are used by the PTB to control all of us hence the MSM machine.
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And wisdom to know the difference.
Astrocyte
Easier said than done. The OP has described this feeling as originating in childhood (hence the "developmental" part of the trauma). She has grown up learning to experience reality in this way, which is to say, to live with such low levels of emotional expression.