reply to post by soulpowertothendegree
Soulpowertothendegree, I appreciate that you would like for love to be able to flourish and be held by all people, above all other things, in truth,
as well as in words, as so many have a wont to do. I think we would all benefit from that. But that is not how the world runs, no matter how much we
would wish it to be.
Now you can wish for a day to come when that might be the case, and you would not be alone in so doing, but to pretend that the day has come, or is
even close at THIS stage in human psychological evolution is delusional at best.
If you refer to IT rather that being honest about the full scale of what you expect from your fellow human beings, then it is not suprising that you
can bring yourself to believe that this is a simple thing you are advocating, but if you actually consider these things, itemised, one by one, in
full, you will see the impossibility of what you are asking for, in the circumstances mankind finds itself in. Asking people to focus on love, when
they are ruled over exclusively by psychopathic tyrants, no matter how well disguised ,when the powerful have such massive sway over the weak, when
the defense of a nation can excuse the subjugation of its citizens, and when none of the freedoms and rights a person has in ANY nation are
functionally inalienable, merely worded so in law, what the HELL do you think love is going to do?
If everyone just started living as you suggest, then do you know what would change for the better? Nothing. Nothing at all. If anything, the crushing
of civil rights would continue unabated, because no one would be able to summon the anger and fury and effort to respond effectively. Oh there would
be sit ins, walk outs strikes even, but the end result would be nothing but streets and parks and meeting places, full of the burning corpses of the
most loving and caring people ever gathered in one spot.
That is NOT a solution, it is a surrender. We cannot expect to live in a loving society, when society is run by a succession of uncaring people, and
that IS the reality in which we live. I will not surrender myself to the fickle whims of such a thing, by becoming so enraptured that I fail to hear
the march of jackboots, fail to see the armoured cars on the horizon. Becoming high on love and walking around with my head in the air will not
improve the human race. Doing that, any one of us refusing to live in the real world, and accept the challenges we face could be the doom of our
entire species, and will certainly doom that individual, if not to death at the hands of total bastards, then to a life of sorrowful disappointment
and confusion.
That would not be loving in any case. REAL love is on fire, can inspire great violence as well as great gentleness, and love in and of itself does
not CREATE peace. It is something that survives best when peace has already been won, and the battle for the future of our species is not over yet.
The opening salvos have not even finished ringing in our ears yet, so forgive me if the sort of love you are advocating doesn't make me feel all
fuzzy inside, because quite apart from having to contend with dark forces rising in the world, the more people take up your angle of approach, the
less people there are to actually battle that darkness, actively.