A summary of what I was trying to say:
Wanting doesn't cause suffering, wanting to "have" does. Most people don't like to "want" anything. They only care to "have" things. They don't "want
to want" a million dollars. They only "want to have" it. They don't "want to want" enlightenment, they only "want to have it".
No body desires "to want" anything, they only care "to have" it. This is what causes the suffering. So, they fight with themselves trying to get rid
of the desire, or they try to get the "thing" hoping that another desire doesn't come. That they can just live "in peace, happily ever after". If
people were wanting and appreciating the wanting for what it is, then fulfillment will be there. If want "wants to want" they will always be
Longer Version of what I was trying to say:
Buddha looked at how most people "want" something but don't "have" it, and came to the answer that this caused them lack and suffering. It's not
"desire" that makes people suffer. Desire is life, it gives life meaning and it gives the body sensation. The reason why people suffer is because they
want to get away from desire... yes, the very thing Buddhism teaches is what most people are already trying to do. The only difference is that the
average person, wants to get rid of the desire and actually "HAVE" the thing they were desiring, while The Buddhist, wants to let go of the desire AND
the "attachment" (the having of it).
Here is an example. A person may want a billion dollars. They hate their desire for the billion dollars because they just want to "have" it. Once a
person has what they want, then their desire for that thing is gone. They know this subconsciously, so, since they are focused on "having", to them,
the desire hurts. The Buddhist, doesn't want to want it, nor care to have the attachment of having it. That is why The Buddhist has more peace even
though they are in the same situation as everyone else.
If we see Desire as Life-Force, as The Engine that keeps us moving, as what makes life Beautiful and Meaningful, then we will be less likely to resist
it. If we want the desire, instead of only wanting to "have" something, then we can actually Enjoy The Desire. We would actually crave The Desire and
The Craving of The Desire in and of itself will be self fulfilling.
edit on 17-9-2013 by arpgme because: summary added