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Thats' really really sad wow.
Okay if it were me, here's what I'd do, no joke....
1) pretty much fire my Dr's. 100%. Not get on bad terms with them. Just move on and don't follow anything they tell you.
2) Get in touch with this DR.... Dr Cass Ingram....
He wrote the book: The Cure Is In The Forest
He's a MD plus a extremely gifted naturopathic DR.
(actually I'm gonna write that name down in my database in case I ever need it. Cuz he knows he's stuff!!)
3) Send him the findings and see what he says and then follow the regiment of suppliments he perscribes. (we're talking weird sheat here like Chaga's, oil of oregeno and other stuff that actually works)
4) Maybe mix in some cannabas oil for good measure.
5) Find some new cause or passion in life to get excited about and that would give me a reason to live.
6) Start reading my bible more and praying more.
And if I die, so what, everyeone dies. I'd be glad I saw it coming. And maybe if I follow the property diet things might turn around. But that's why I NEVER GO SEE DR'S. I'd never go see them, no matter what. You go see them and next thing you know you're being told you have 6 months to live! And what's really sad is if you're stupid you might actually believe them! No, anything and anyone to do with the establishment is to be avoided at all cost. They're bad news.
But anyway, just call her as often as you can. That's at least something right. And think positive.edit on 11-9-2013 by spartacus699 because: (no reason given)
reply to post by StealthyKat
I was listening to Jim Rohn (the power of ambition) on youtube. One thing he said really rang home. That is no matter what our situations in life we have to be "realistic about them" to some degree. Like if it's bad, then have faith that things will get better, but just be realistic about things. Like if it's your time to go then it's yoru time to go. Just get ready to go, and don't hold onto your pride and ego until the very end. At that point you should really shed all that and humble yourself before God. Thats' all you have left at that point. And maybe he might grant you an extention of time, who knows. If not then that's the way life is. But if you're realistic about the situation then at least you're not so heavily resisting it that it makes it that much more painful. I don't know, just a thought.
I found a video that despite the fact that I was in terrible pain made me laugh so hard I forgot all my troubles for a few minutes. I can't stop watching it and started a thread with it and thought maybe it could be a funny video thread for when we need a laugh! Check it out...maybe you could send it to Lisa?
reply to post by Murgatroid
that part you said "You and Lisa can rendezvous in Heaven." ...I think that's the spirit.
For K2 .....vVv
I'd say when together, if you and her can, try to have activities where you can both throw it out of your mind, the kind of good times you used to have. Of course you will both have to come back down to earth, but for that brief time, it can all be good and enjoyable despite the outlook of the doctors.
Don't give her false hope, that's as bad as being all fake when your around her. Be real, tell her, come on, lets go happen, and then do, as long as your able, fill the minutes you have with memories and good times, the rest will come soon enough. And if you have to talk of the end, well remember, were All going to ultimately end up there also.edit on 11-9-2013 by Plotus because: (no reason given)
She probably needs you to be the normal YOU right now.
Any chance of doing some things on her bucket list? We all have them. Maybe the fun of doing some may keep your minds off the other thing.... (and doesn't have to be giving up). The human body is capable of some pretty amazing things. Having some fun may be just the kick start she needs. Either way, at least you both can have some fun together.
reply to post by StealthyKat
Saw your pics on page two. 53?????????????
Not till November LOL
reply to post by Forte
No it doesn't cure it. But it does increase appetite and help them sleep better. Too bad it's illegal because it could help a lot! That has been proven.
My best friend since I was 13 years old (33 years now) told me last weekend she has 6 months to live if she was
She has been fighting breast cancer for 6 years. Beat it once. It came back. Beat it again. It came back this time with a vengeance. She had spots in her lungs, her bones, and her spine. She has been undergoing chemo and radiation this time for 8 months. This past weekend she told me her cancer has spread to her spine and her liver and the doctor told her there is nothing else they can do. It is too spread throughout her body.
I stood there as she told me this in shock. I did not know what to say. I hugged her and said "that is B*llsh*t no one can tell you when you are going to die. Then I said, "I could get hit by a semi driving home from here". That is crap!!
I was angry. It was not the reaction I thought I would have. It was not appropriate.
She lives about 5 hours away from me. I get to see her once a month. I cannot bear the idea that I will only see her 5 more times.
This is unreal.
I told her (after I processed it all) that I wish I could take her pain and worry away. I wish I could make it better. I told her all I could offer her is to let her know I am here for her 24/7/365...just a phone call away.
It just doesnt seem like enough. I feel so helpless.
If LIsa leaves me, I know my heart will never recover. I feel so selfish. She told me the day she gave me the news all she wants is to live until February to watch her daughter graduate from college.
February..that is 5 months away.
I now look at everything with her in urgency. Time it goes too fast. I want more. She is my sister from another mother. She gets me. She always has. I have aspergers and I am "quirky" she loves me quirks and all.
What do I say?
Part of me wants her to do something amazing for her daughter...like help her make videos or write letters. But that feels like I am giving up on her. But If she truly has 6 months...we have to get busy.
How do I suggest to her I can help her with her wishes...help her fulfill them after she is gone...without giving up on her?
Oh this sucks so bad. My heart is truly hurting and breaking.
I feel so freaking selfish but she is an amazing person and the world needs to know about her, her daughter needs to know her stories from the past, and her grandchildren deserve to know their grandmother they will never meet.
What do I do???edit on 7-9-2013 by k21968 because: Added a pic of Lisa and I.edit on 7-9-2013 by k21968 because: (no reason given)edit on 7-9-2013 by k21968 because: (no reason given)