posted on Aug, 23 2013 @ 11:56 PM
I know those cruising places exist, but I'm gay, and I have absolutely no desire to go there.
I've come to the conclusion that some individuals can be genetically programmed by their nature to have a higher sex drive than others.
I'm also finding that especially gay-focused research has only focused on the most visible groups.
That is, it deliberately sought out spaces of sexual activity to study.
I've heard some narrative now from gay men who came to the Castro in the early 1970s, and found they didn't like the sexual scene at all.
Some felt like outcasts.
They would later find a niche as caregivers to people dying of AIDS.
One also finds loads of gay men in the monastic traditions of various religions, and while some may abuse it, I don't think most of them do, and
there's also gay men who stay celibate.