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well yeah cause i lost my father to cancer in 2001 and to go tell my mother that i had it as well years later was a whole world of pain,to see that look on her face was the worst thing i,ve ever had to do.
Originally posted by shaneslaughta
Lost my dad to cancer back in April. My dad wouldn't even let my mom help with the meds or anything. He would only listen to me. I dont know if its the smothering that bothered him. I feel like its more about not bringing in others to your world of pain.
Originally posted by sparky31
can i ask anyone on here if u,ve went through cancer treatment that have you become like a hermit where you never leave the house?just ask cause i,ve found that i,ve become kinda house bound and not saying scared to leave house cause i do but its only to go to shop then i,m more comfortable being back in doors.
i,m not worried it will come back but since going through it all i just feel more comfortable in house than facing anyone and the reason for that is probably the fact that everyone fussing over me 24/7 drove me insane,i just wanted that 5 mins alone.
anyone understand?
i,m glad you do,since from going through the chemo i haven,t felt like interacting with many people,as i say i,ve found myself being more happier just being locked up inside but where as before i was never in,maybe it comes down to if i don,t see anyone then i don,t need to talk about it face to face.
Originally posted by Night Star
Originally posted by sparky31
can i ask anyone on here if u,ve went through cancer treatment that have you become like a hermit where you never leave the house?just ask cause i,ve found that i,ve become kinda house bound and not saying scared to leave house cause i do but its only to go to shop then i,m more comfortable being back in doors.
i,m not worried it will come back but since going through it all i just feel more comfortable in house than facing anyone and the reason for that is probably the fact that everyone fussing over me 24/7 drove me insane,i just wanted that 5 mins alone.
anyone understand?
No I don't feel like that at all. I am usually home anyway and have plenty of time to myself. It is nice for me to get out once or twice a week.