reply to post by calstorm
Love or not love, whatever it is, no doubt its there and present in your face, therefore it likely means that its real, because as some say "reality
is that which when you cease believing in, it does not go away." Now if he stoped believing in it and all of a sudden it just poof dissipated,
chances are it was not real to begin with. These sort of things manifest themselves over and over, and generally in this universe like attracts like,
and energies bond with same sort of energies, and things like fears, hates, prejudices attract people to other people just as much as common habits
and common likes or even there love does, in effect all those things are energies that people give out and take in, in a overall aspect nature and the
universe does not distinguish from bad or good. To "it" its all just energies, and it comes down to everybody to find out what works for them, and
what does not work.
All that applies to humans and even life in general or lifetimes, so yes the body and stomach may know more about what is going to happen, or what is
happening then your head may know, and sometimes there are reasons why after its all said and done you end up going back to the same thing or the
same person, for good or bad or detrimental you have something in common with them even if you don't want to admit it. Like instinct your gut just
may know more about what is going on then the mind can fully grasp. Reason is surmountable your gut however can only be enticed or confused, and even
that not for long as unlike your mind it usually just goes for what it likes or what was good for it once, while the mind will question and reason
itself into any situation or believe, even if its not good for you anything can be reasoned into being something other then what it is, which
eventually takes a sort of life of its own.
The dude seems to handle it well, and to tell the truth no doubt he and she will likely have lots more stuff coming down his way as like everything
else everything just multiplies itself, so when you install a barb in your partner, expect to be like reimbursed and likely when you least expect it
out of the blue BAAM a surprise, and from there it just goes on and on and on.
But such is life, I for one would rather whatever they got going on they handle it themselves, because its likely that if they don't all of it will
just come up again, and go blammo on whoever they would be with then. Its usually how these sort of things work.
But really boncho? I am starting to see why women are into this sort of things. Ahh the dramatics, so what happen? Do tell, did she take your car for
a joyride and end up scratching the paint job? Or was it worse then that.
The suspense is killing me.