posted on Aug, 18 2013 @ 08:34 PM
reply to post by dominicus
Normally I would say tell her. But really this sort of thing happens so often its kind of a brain fart as to why people are deaf to it, of which the
only logical conclusion is some part of them knows but just does not want to face up to it, or simply does not care all that much and is willing to
ride that bus it till they can get off at a better stop.
I have been going to the gym's for years, never have I once worn cologne as when you really start sweating it just mixes and makes things more stinky,
deodorant and such ya, but even that is only in small quantities, I mean how many dudes have you seen wear cologne when at the gym that you can smell
it on them from across the room? And more so, In fact 90% of the females you see there are usually married or have a boyfriend, or boyfriends. But
once in a while you do see this sort of thing, and people do hook up there every once in a while. Some weeks ago saw a guy hit on a chick, all cool
and calm as # he goes up to her and gets her phone number it was all in the confidence. And the next week he got some other girls phone number. So
ya there is a bit of that going on, and ya the guy did smell his best, and he was there only for show really not necessarily to push himself in
physical exercise. And besides I think the girls he was hitting on know what it was all about, its really there life and choices, some expect it, some
look for it, after all you do hear them go on about guys with confidence and all that. In a way there wishes came true.
Generally bro I avoid that stuff like the plague because no matter what you do its a your damned if you do, and damned if you dont, sort of thing.
And unless you really got some evidence that he is cheating on her I would not be jumping to any conclusions. The truth, I don't think this is your
business. I'f I were you I would just tell your sister your suspicions and let her handle it, as its her life and one way or another she will have to
deal with it, but stalking this guy and getting into his personal business you don't want to do. And if your sister cant handle a little possible
bad news then she may need to grow some thicker skin, because life is full of bad news.
Personally I would like to end it as quickly as possible and everybody can move on before things just become more complicated, what with them getting
a house, and who knows what else. But that is only me, I can not speak for other or your sister or you. But then again like I said, women have there
intuition and they know about this stuff more so then they let on. Don't be surprised if she truly may not be all that surprised about any of this,
even if she is devastated by it. That and you could just be jumping to conclusions.
edit on 18-8-2013 by galadofwarthethird because: (no reason given)