posted on Aug, 8 2013 @ 09:29 AM
reply to post by sled735
The problem for human beings is we only see what we want to see and desire what we don't.
A friend of mine has 8 siblings, so including herself there are 9 girls in the family. Because her dad wanted a boy. Our neighbor - A's hubby
wanted to have 12 children, she agreed. The other side of neighbor - B stabbed at her back by making fun of A and telling our neighborhood that A is
treated as a baby making machine. ( Not kind at all in my opinion ). Another young couple amongst my circle want a child so much that they
tried whatever scientific methods to conceive a baby and now they are at their wits' end. She becomes so jealous of her circle friends who have kids
and claimed that God is so unfair........
13 children?????? Wow, it's definitely not for me. Well, I might be selfish on carrying on a non-children policy between m.p. and me. Imagining
that the hard works I would have to do as a parent just puts me off. I admire and praise those who ( including my own parents) raise more than one
kids and also those adoptive parents help kids who desperately need love and cares. Bravo!!!
I think I might have Having-Children-phobia ( sorry, it's not a proper word but hope you do know what I mean ). Is there anyone who could tell me
what enjoyments you get by having child/ren opposed to responsibilities, worrying, discipline, anxiety, PND, etc......