posted on Aug, 7 2013 @ 10:22 PM
If everything you say is true, it sounds as though (speculatively of course) she may have narcissistic personality disorder. I've unfortunately known
people suffering from it, and she fits the description to a T. Belief in personal superiority, thinking she "deserves" a certain standard of living
and lifestyle, never taking responsibility for her own shortcomings, etc.
It is one possible explanation for the seemingly irrational demands and lack of compassion.
I wish you luck. Peace.