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Originally posted by DontTreadOnMe
reply to post by ColoradoJens
I feel for you....truly.
But, at least you are divorced.
And to that extent she IS out of your life
Originally posted by tinker9917
Actually, it seems that Karma has come back and kicked her butt. Strange how that can happen
You may want to disect the TYPES of expenses. Your child's related expenses vs wife's extravagances. How many years before you stop paying anything to your ex (alimony, child support etc). Does she also receive a single parent benefit package from the Government?
Originally posted by ColoradoJens
Originally posted by Char-Lee
reply to post by ColoradoJens
You should not be responsible at all for any debt incurred after the divorce. if it was joint debt from before the divorce you could need a lawyer, with the circumstances of the divorce you still would probably not have to pay, if it is like mine was in CA.
Well Char-Lee I am meeting my attorney tomorrow to discuss it. The debts were incurred after the divorce. I'll update once I know more. Thanks!
CJ
Originally posted by ColoradoJens
Wife divorced me in 2010. Split all liabilities and assets. I cover health insurance @ $490 a month. I pay daycare. Three years later she files for bankruptcy and today I received notice for collections for over $8k - for her bills.
She left me for a millionaire who of course was cheating on her and dumped her a year and a half later. She said I was not making enough $ to support her lifestyle - she said she was superior to me and deserved better...I own a house, a new car, have a great job, many friends and a great family. She has nothing, no friends, no home, and has had 4 jobs in the past two years.
Why should I have to pay her debts? How long do I have to pay for giving this person everything I had?
Originally posted by Char-Lee
reply to post by ColoradoJens
You should not be responsible at all for any debt incurred after the divorce. if it was joint debt from before the divorce you could need a lawyer, with the circumstances of the divorce you still would probably not have to pay, if it is like mine was in CA.
Originally posted by ColoradoJens
Originally posted by Char-Lee
reply to post by ColoradoJens
You should not be responsible at all for any debt incurred after the divorce. if it was joint debt from before the divorce you could need a lawyer, with the circumstances of the divorce you still would probably not have to pay, if it is like mine was in CA.
Hi Char-Lee; update - I'm screwed. Working to negotiate a settlement but in CO it is joint responsibility for children and since she filed bankruptcy it is now my debt.
CJ