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Originally posted by Rtardx
reply to post by grey580
Cool, But I want to get the perfect gf/wife for me by the time I turn 18. I'm not going to go through that emotional BS, Dozens of poopy relationships, etc. like you guys have all gone through. I want my first girlfriend to be my only girlfriend. I'm only gonna date a girl who's my power level.
Originally posted by Terminal1
Thinking you can manifest a perfect, or any girl for that matter, by writing down a list of wants and burning it just seems a bit rich and puts one on the path of "fooling oneself".
Besides, nobody is perfect. Perfection is a pipe dream and in my almost 50 years of walking this Earth I have never seen a perfect relationship. Ever. I think the largest downfall is expecting things to be perfect or near perfect in relationships. It takes time, patience, sacrifice and a host of other adjectives to make a relationship work. Perfection should be far, FAR down the list.
I have a woman of 15 years now and she makes me happy. She isn't perfect because if she were she wouldn't be with me and I give thanks to her everyday for that and even after 15 years, not a day goes by that I don't tell her I love her.
I didn't have to put qualities I want on a piece of paper and visualize anything for her to step into my life. I didn't have to meditate or burn pieces of paper either. A matter of fact, when I met her I was in dark times and moods.
So put away the pencils, paper and book of matches and get out there and spend your energies that way.
Originally posted by winofiend
Originally posted by Rtardx
reply to post by grey580
Cool, But I want to get the perfect gf/wife for me by the time I turn 18. I'm not going to go through that emotional BS, Dozens of poopy relationships, etc. like you guys have all gone through. I want my first girlfriend to be my only girlfriend. I'm only gonna date a girl who's my power level.
I'm only ever going to eat pizza. I like pizza. I will always like pizza. And pizza is fine. In fact I want pizza for breakfast, lunch dinner and as a treat for when I've had my pizza.
And I'll never get tired of pizza. Because pizza. And pizza will always be pizza. They even wrote a song about it, when the moon hits her eye like a big pizza pie!
Pizza.
And when I turn 18 if I don't have a pizza making factory I'll be unhappy about it, but still want pizza.
And when I turn 80 my pizza will be warm and cheesy.
I'll never want chocolate or bacon or steak or candy or a sticky bun. Ever. I like pizza.
Originally posted by Rtardx
She makes me feel amazing, sexy, strong, studly, intelligent, secure, protective, cool, etc.
Originally posted by Rtardx
She wants to have kids.
Look for images here: www.google.com...
Originally posted by aorAki
Originally posted by Rtardx
She makes me feel amazing, sexy, strong, studly, intelligent, secure, protective, cool, etc.
I was young once too, and idealistic. If you don't feel those things without her, then she isn't the one for you. You need, I repeat, need to be able to fend for yourself and not rely on anyone else, no matter how close or deep or unrealistic or real your relationship is.
Originally posted by Rtardx
She wants to have kids.
If she wants to have kids, then her perky boobs are out the window
Nobody is perfect. That's a hell of a thing to lay on somebody. People make mistakes. People don't always live up to expectations. The best thing, I have found, is to have no claim over anybody, that is, to allow them to exercise their right to freedom, and not to ownership. The best relationship i have had is now, where I am relaxed, have no expectations of her, demand nothing, do not 'own', 'possess' or claim her and we get on like a house on fire. The best aspect is the open and honest communication. That, for me, is essential.
Originally posted by Rikku
reply to post by Rtardx
Look for images here: www.google.com...
you actually linked to google, i dont think i've ever seen that before.
well i hope it works out for you and your imaginary girlfriend.
Originally posted by Rtardx
This all I want in a girl
My Perfect Girlfriend (The girl of my dreams)
Appearance
She was born between the year 1993-1997 (I was born in 1996). Her beauty is 100% natural. She is beautiful and sexy. Her beauty is unique and original. She has beautiful, expressive, hypnotic. deep, unique eyes that gaze into mine just as long as I gaze into hers. I find her extremely unique, striking, and attractive. She also has a bright heartwarming smiling and nice teeth. Her body is slender, athletic, healthy, and toned. Her breast are naturally bountiful, perky, and buoyant and just the right size, I think they're perfect. Her skin is smooth, healthy, and soft. She is the most beautiful woman in the world to me. Regardless of this she's pure eye-candy!
Personality
-Calm
-Extremely Intelligent
-Quick-Witted
-Sharp
-nice
-sweet
-loving
-caring
-motivated
-generous
-honest
-trustworthy
-sensual
-passionate
-warm
-attractive
-wise
-supportive
-open-minded
-athletic
-energetic
-understanding
-deep
-insightful
-adventurous
-fun
-interesting
compassionate
-faithful
-spiritual
-strong-willed
Interest/hobbies:
-Reading
-Metaphysics/psionics
-tantric arts
-martial arts
-cooking
-jrpg's
-travelling
-exercises
Relationship
I am in the ideal relationship with her. We both find each other extremely attractive and have tons of chemistry. We're always having blast together. She adores me just as much as I adore her. She makes me feel amazing, sexy, strong, studly, intelligent, secure, protective, cool, etc. She wants to have kids. She wants to be in a long-term relationship with me. She respects me. We both find each other intellectually stimulating and can talk about anything for hours on in. We'll have a long great happy life together. She cares about me just as much I care about her. We're deeply in love with each other. We get along perfectly. She understands me. We are supportive of one another. She motivates me to succeed. She always includes me in her plans. She's loyal to me. She'll always enjoy being with me. She accepts me for who I am. She listens to me. I am important to her. We find each other extremely interesting. She enjoys getting intimate with me. She's comfortable around me and opens up to me. She's always willing to try new things with me. We can always spend time with each other. We're perfectly compatible.
Originally posted by Rtardx
Originally posted by Terminal1
Thinking you can manifest a perfect, or any girl for that matter, by writing down a list of wants and burning it just seems a bit rich and puts one on the path of "fooling oneself".
Besides, nobody is perfect. Perfection is a pipe dream and in my almost 50 years of walking this Earth I have never seen a perfect relationship. Ever. I think the largest downfall is expecting things to be perfect or near perfect in relationships. It takes time, patience, sacrifice and a host of other adjectives to make a relationship work. Perfection should be far, FAR down the list.
I have a woman of 15 years now and she makes me happy. She isn't perfect because if she were she wouldn't be with me and I give thanks to her everyday for that and even after 15 years, not a day goes by that I don't tell her I love her.
I didn't have to put qualities I want on a piece of paper and visualize anything for her to step into my life. I didn't have to meditate or burn pieces of paper either. A matter of fact, when I met her I was in dark times and moods.
So put away the pencils, paper and book of matches and get out there and spend your energies that way.
Even if you didn't use of the techniques posted, You still manifested her in your life. I'm glad that you've had a successful relationship. But still, There's absolutely no way I'm going to simply disregard the LOA as a practical means of getting into a successful relationship. You may have a few decades ahead of me but I've highly doubt you've seen or gotten to known every single couple that's ever been. Again, I'm being shallow here. Whoever the universe/god/higher self/ What ever the hell it is thinks is best for me then I will gracefully accept.
Why do you care though? I'm doomed by the cosmos to have hundreds of failed relationships so I might as well try to manifest those relationships using this technique!