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Originally posted by DAVID64
reply to post by Rtardx
Not gonna happen. Life and relationships just don't work that way. You can't pick someone perfect for you, without taking the time to know them and that means more than a weekend romance. When you've gotten to know that person well enough to say they're not your bride to be, you have to move on to the next. Love at first sight is so rare, I'd go so far as to say it doesn't exist. So don't expect the first to be the last. You admit to being under 18, so I'm sure you have little experience with relationships, but, do you really want to find, marry and be with the same girl by the time you're 18? There are many wonderful women out there, give'em a chance.
Originally posted by djr33222
Instead of a pen and paper you will need a cauldron, monkey bones, and the intestines of some exotic jungle creature. Then you need an incantation to summon forth a demonic spirit to do your bidding. If it finds you unworthy you will go completely insane. If if finds you worthy just provide it with a sample of a female's or male's blood, hair, and some form of bodily excretion from the "type" of person you would like to be with.
After a week or so you will have your sex slave or loving partner or workhorse or whatever is it you were looking for. After 7 years all bets are off...edit on 4-8-2013 by djr33222 because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by boymonkey74
OP no woman is perfect, no woman will just magically appear because you have wrote things down on a bit of paper.
You have raised the bar to an impossible level and until you understand this you will not find what you are looking for.
You are not even 18 yet and have decided to stay with the first woman that comes across your path.
Live a little play the field, experience all women they are wonderful and magical and you are only letting yourself down by just wanting one.
Don't make the same mistake I did and get married when you are not even a man yourself, sure it is intense at your age but real life has a knack of smacking you right down and making you understand it can't just be about love.
In a perfect world it would be about love but this world is far from perfect.
Originally posted by Realtruth
What I would suggest for everyone is not looking for happiness in others, but finding peace, happiness and love within oneself, this in turn will draw the people and events you desire.
Originally posted by darkbake
reply to post by grey580
I think it's not a bad thing to have experienced many different types of people, I have done a lot of dating (just hanging out with girls, not much more) and that allows me to learn about different types of girls, their different personalities, that they are human, etc. learn about myself and them in order to get a better picture of who I want to be with.
In turn, that helps me set boundaries when I am dating a girl because I feel like we are both equals instead of her way super powerful...
I had a girlfriend once, my first one, my only one, I was at college and coming home for the summer to spend it with her when she broke up with me while I was packing boxes from my dorm room into my car... she had been seeing someone else.
I figure you'll get your heart broken with your first girlfriend at some point - necessary, though.edit on 4-8-2013 by darkbake because: (no reason given)