posted on Sep, 27 2013 @ 07:19 AM
reply to post by KeliOnyx
It's nice to finally meet a woman who has the same experience!
I couldn't understand the statement about some women being so emotionally damaged they can't have one at all..... I had to think that over and
remember that for some people, saying one is highly emotionally sensitive means they are traumatized people.
I didn't mean that though, just that I read subtilities to a point that many people don't. The Highly Sensitive Person trait applies, and it is
sometimes termed Sensory-Processing Sensitivity nowadays, because it corresponds to differences in the nervous system. So it is actually physical!
Emotions being the biological reactions to percieved stimuli (chemical secretions) I consider the physical and emotional to be the same.
But looking at this way it effects my partner, in making him feel big and powerful, if you apply that to non-sexual interactions as well, you can
still guess that if a person percieves (even subconsciously) that your pupils, blood vessels, persperation... react strongly to their speech or
actions, it makes them feel powerful! They think, "wow, I have big impact! I must be really something!"
-when in fact, anyone and everyone gets such reactions from me, it isn't really them in particular.
But I can see how that could make some people attracted, either for sex...... or a fight!