Can you want something too much

Can you sometimes want something so much that you'll never get it.......

I want to win the Lottery....

oh yes its true alright

"you can look but you cant touch"

you can want something or somebody so much that it hurts you, then it turns to jealousy and worse, anger!

somethings just arent meant to be!!!!

blackwidow

Not something like that, I mean being with a specific person or wanting a baby?

BUT, Blackwidow, what if you know in your heart of hearts that it really is the right thing for you...

Can't really say...don't have much experience!

Life is full of challanges and surprises...take each day as it comes and your wishes will come true

Blackwidow....taking it you had some bad experiences?

Not prying...just sounded that you knew from experience!

well first you have to think of the pro's and con's

whose going to get hurt, are there children involved

at what cost ?

are you prepared to give up everything and i mean everything for something you really believe in?

we dont get many chances in life of happiness, and sometimes you just have to grab what you can, before its too late!

if you dont, then you could be one of those, that sits around dreaming the rest of their lives, but what if i had?????????



blackwidow

[Edited on 16-5-2003 by blackwidow666]

lets just say

i sit and wonder "what if" sometimes?????



dont worry you wernt prying, its just the way i put things across sometimes, sadly some are true

Thanks Blackwidow...

Looks like you've helped me make a big decsision..

I'm going to go for it and be happy, if it doesn't work, at least I can say that I tried...

well i hope i havent set the "cat with the pigeons"

what ever you decide is down to you in life

dont let anyone tell you any different!



"if you love something

set it free

if it comes back to you

its yours

if it doesnt

it never was in the first place"

blackwidow

If your desire becomes so great that it effects other part of your life negatively it not good for you.
especially when dealing with other human beings that very desire can cause stress which can cause emotional and physical problems, neither are good and can stop you fro achieving your desire.

You can get anything you want

But not any person you want.

And that is how it should be.

Not a something right?

I'll say that nowadays...the world we live in if you WANT a baby you CAN get or have a baby. Some people want a child so bad, yet they are unable to have one..something inside their body won't let them..but that does not mean that you can't have one. There are 50 or older women today having babies for the first time due to the 'technology' or the intervention of doctors/specialist and then there is always adoption

Now as far as wanting a person/lover so badly that you may never have them-could go either way really...you may want someone so badly for SO long and just when you feel as though you are losing hope or ready to give up, they find their way to you. OR you may want someone so badly and they don't want you back..there is nothing you can do about that, you cannot 'force' another to love you and then...why would you even want to? I would hate to be with someone and know they were with me yet did not love me the way I loved them..for some reason though a child or whatever..they stay with you..I'm all about some personal happiness, but if the one on the other end is unhappy...let them go, it's unfair to chain someone to you for your own needs and wants. And if you do love them let them go, let them 'find' the happiness and love somewhere else...if it's not found with you. Because when you see them happy, you can say that you did them a great favor by setting them free...even if you are broken inside. You will mend in time...

Do you think the love you feel is mutual? Or is it more onesided?

Magestica