Maybe it is just me but i am having a hard time agreeing with this when compared to my own experiences as a Father of 3 and these recently published
For the first time since 1975, the number of white single-mother households living in poverty with children surpassed or equaled black ones in
the past decade, spurred by job losses and faster rates of out-of-wedlock births among whites. White single-mother families in poverty stood at nearly
1.5 million in 2011, comparable to the number for blacks. Hispanic single-mother families in poverty trailed at 1.2 million.
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The guys i seem to meet
In my opinion a lot of these "men" as we are now referring to them are not really men at all. In fact, i find it rather funny that we are even making
these comparisons anymore. Now, admittedly, not every case is going to involve an abusive/addicted/irresponsible asshole but when i think of the
number of "men" I KNOW with children who have largely bailed on that child and it's mother many of those same factors are usually involved.
Another point i have to wonder about is this dated notion that a man is going to come home and sit in his arm-chair for hours until passing out. This
has always struck me as being a male problem to begin with and a worthy complaint from women.
If you both work 8 hour days then you are already on even footing, yet the common complaint is that once the man gets home he does nothing while the
women does everything.
You can fight-n-die in combat, fix a car or build a house but you can't operate a vacuum cleaner?
Wash a few dishes?
Cook a damn meal? (We invented fire for christ sake. We love burning animal flesh!)
(I know this ain't everybody, but it is cliche enough to point out)
One could argue that it is the women's fault for making such poor choices in their mates, again it is worthy of noting, but then i remember that Men
have had a hell of a lot more experience in lying to women to get them into bed then women have.
(Seriously, why would a women need to lie to get laid, can't she just ask if the guy wants to have sex right now? Are there really that many guys out
there who would say no to such a simple request?)
Now you can point to the inequalities in child support rules and custody cases, which are certainly worth noting and adjusting to offer a more
balanced perspective, but please remember that one of the biggest reasons for both of these things is the large number of "men" who nut and bail on a
woman the first chance they get.
I only whine about two things.
1.) The number of times i am interrupted in the shower or on the toilet by my kids.
2.) The fact that my kids are so active that it leaves me far too little time to have more sex.
Oh well, gotta make sacrifices right?
Dealing with the woman
There are a few basic things that i make clear in every relationship before it even gets started.
I am going to bite you.
I am going to growl in your ear and whisper dirty things that you have put in mind by being present.
I am going to take you when i want you. (If your asleep try not to lash out. If your not interested atm, just give me a kiss and promise me some
I will help you cook and clean, and you will help with the yard work.
Yes, it is our money, but only after the bills/rent are paid. After that i don't care what you spend it on, but every now and then buy something for
me or something so sexy you KNOW i am gonna be staring at you and thinking about making babies.
Out of curiosity, Am i the only guy who has been asked if all of his kids are with the same woman and when answering yes to that question immediately
received a surprised response?
Really, how hard is it to have sex with just one woman?
(Answer: It isn't when you got good pussy.)
edit on 30-7-2013 by Thorneblood because: (no reason given)