posted on Jul, 26 2013 @ 01:24 AM
Thanks for writing that story if you did. I have a very similar situation and Ive been thinking about it more and more lately, and a lot especially
today. Find it cool that I found and read this tonight when I needed to hear it from somebody else. Im 35 and haven't seriously dated anyone for over
10 years and I feel like Im ok alone. I too was hurt and didn't want to open myself up to let anybody else do that again. So far nobody has, however
as time goes on and all my friends are getting married and having kids I just go on existing. Im not a bad looking guy and have had many opportunities
to date but I always just end up blowing it off, or not pursuing.
I feel like im at that crossroads in my life where if I don't change now Im going to be alone till the end, which I think I can handle and get through
it, but im realizing how much I will miss. Maybe Im suppressing it and my subconscious is just pressing the issue more as my window gets smaller .
Love is the most powerful drug on the planet if you ask me, and its hard to just let go and trust someone fully especially if you've been hurt in the
past. However the truth is all of us has been hurt at one time or another and its part of why we are here to experience these things. Anyways just
wants to say thanks for posting, ive got more thinking to do!
edit on 26-7-2013 by BDIDDY425 because: grammer mistakes