posted on Jul, 19 2013 @ 12:15 PM
Hi All, New to the site but have been reading for yeras
Wish this could go under Rants or another topic but I am restricted restricted. This is something I will never understand.
So why are we as people so hard to forgive others? Of course I know this is not the case with everyone including myself but so many people including
those close to my heart just cant seem to truly forgive others for wrongs commited against them whether real or perceived. I relaize there are many
things that are unforgiveable even for those of us who are forgiving and I am not speaking of horrible acts such as abuse but so many people can not
seem to get over less signifcant slights against them. Life is too short to be bitter about things that happened to you years ago that maybe are not
all that significant. I cant imagine carrying around all of that negative resintment my whole life for things that at least for me might be upsetting
at first but then i relaize they are minor in the big picture. The only thing worse than someone not being able to forgive is someone who likes to
continously recall those events and throw them in your face at the most opportune time.
I truly question whether these types of people will ever have peace in their life? I also feel sorry for those who cannot easily forgive.